I am so surprised

SO many people here talk about . How many of you were born in a  state governor and  's official 's families? or president's families?

Actually, general working families in big cities didn't necesarily have a better life. I remembered in college, most of the grils who counted pennies are from beijing, shanghai and tianjin. One of them wanted to marry a riched guy. I can't believe a girl can do that without any dignity. They got married. But I heard the she was dumped several years later. Another girl from big city was very nice and chose a  凤凰男 to marry. The guy didn't agree at first. We did a lot to convince him that she is very good girl. He accepted her and cherished her later.They are happily married and both are very sucessful.

These are only 2 examples. Of course, there are many other examples.

How many F2 are "kong que nu" ? I think it is more than 90%.

It is not where you are from, it is from what kind of value your family hold up.

 

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• 风向变了，孔雀们开始生闷气了 -tteddy- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:03:34

• 哪有几只孔雀啊，上来抱怨的基本都是麻雀和草鸡，屁股上沾了2根孔雀毛就以为自己是孔雀了。 -土鱼媳妇- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:07:29

• 1~~照说这些是不都要归到"婚姻生活“那坛里吗？ -aitea- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:18:17

• what is "kong que nu? -sunshine豬媽- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:04:19

• 孔雀女 -tteddy- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:04:48

• icic.. -sunshine豬媽- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:05:33

• 得了好处再控诉不厚道。 -Goingplace- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:09:27

• 我相信她們說的 孔雀女=城市女. 凤凰男就是鄉民吧. -sunshine豬媽- ♀ (111 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:10:34

• 农村人的观念可不是政府能管的. -说不完的家务事- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:11:47

• 城乡差别主要是观念的差别. 农村有根深蒂固的 -说不完的家务事- ♀ (502 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:11:05

• 以前农村太太生的孩子是农村户口。不知道多少小芳就因为这个被抛弃的。 -A-mao- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:13:50

• 我同学里农村出身的女生比男生难找对象多了.她长得很好看, -说不完的家务事- ♀ (256 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:16:20

• 我班上30个，农村来的就两个。 -A-mao- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:17:38

• 我们班不少. 80年代的大学里, 农村生不少. -说不完的家务事- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:19:43

• 农大肯定多。:).我也80年代。 -A-mao- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:21:45

• 我可不是农大的. 北大清华的农村生都不少. 现在没有了, 农村人也读不起. -说不完的家务事- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:22:38

• 我在农大呆过，所以知道。看样子我的母校比清华北大还牛皮。LOL. -A-mao- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:38:23

• 你外语学院? 那里不招农村生, 嫌土气. -说不完的家务事- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:41:58

• 我英语这么差，怎么可能呢。：）。 -A-mao- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:42:59

• 我们班只有两个女生是农村的，男生只有一个农村的。那个男生追求我们班花，没成。班花妈妈是 -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (55 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:22:02

• 我们班有4个, 1个女生, 3个男生. -说不完的家务事- ♀ (43 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:23:36

• 后来听说我们那两个女生都在单位找到了，不知道是不是也是农村的，其中一个过得不是很好 -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:25:30

• 不能夠拿根深蒂固來做擋箭牌,人是可以change的. -sunshine豬媽- ♀ (51 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:15:35

• 自卑的人不愿意改变, 好象改变了自己, 就等于承认自己出身低一样. -说不完的家务事- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:18:49

• 在当时那种大环境中，农村的要change的阻力是很大的，条条框框太多，不找捷径很难出头的 -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:23:39

• 現在也可以change啊. -sunshine豬媽- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:26:35

• 思维固定了的人，很难。 -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:29:50

• 现在已经变了. 主要是归功于计划生育. -说不完的家务事- ♀ (268 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:30:19

• grils who counted pennies，我看成了grils who counted penises，困惑了半天，。 -arrwyn- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:17:51

• 太欢乐了， 哈哈 -田园- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:19:21

• 回复：grils who counted pennies，我看成了grils who counted penises，困惑了半天 -sunshine豬媽- ♀ (79 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:20:13

• 艾玛！会贾正经吗：））） -aitea- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/19/2013 postreply 15:22:29