middle school daughter promised will get 95 and above on her final exames at school, then we will buy iphone 5 for her. It is not us cheap, we just want her to study harder and pay more attention to school.
But I find out most of her final are not very good, close to average scores (her classroom average for ELA is 85, her is around 86), but did not meet agreed 95.
She still want iphone and I think since the agreement is 95, I told her no iphone this year. Last night she was very upset and crying. she is 14 now. What should I do?