回复：我这欺骗的婚姻

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很同情你的遭遇。你能去教会听讲道，追求真理和帮助是很好的。

圣经里神在一种情况下是同意离婚的，那就是对方犯奸淫。神爱我们，我们宽恕人，并不以为着要在糟糕的境遇下，不采取积极的行动，一味忍耐纵容。

愿主给你平安。

But I say to you, any man who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, causes her to commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.” (Matthew 5:31)

In this statement, Jesus Christ makes it very clear that there is a valid reason before the eyes of God to get a divorce: Adultery or Sexual Immorality. He says that “except for sexual immorality,” meaning that one can divorce in the event of sexual immorality in a marriage.

What does this mean? This means that it would be an acceptable reason to divorce in the eyes of God. So let me give an example: Say that a man (Bob)was married to a woman (Sue). The man cheated on his wife with another woman (Jenny). The woman (Sue) has appropriate grounds to file for a divorce from Bob if she wishes. She is free to go on with her life, and potentially even re-marry, or choose to remain single. By divorcing Bob, Sue is committing no wrong or no sin. The bible clearly says this in the verse above, and in this situation Sue was wronged by Bob, and is not obligated to remain with him.

Sexual immorality, which includes adultery, fornication, bestiality, homosexuality, or any other wrong or inappropriate sexual activity…is possible grounds for a divorce in the eyes of God.

The act of sexual immorality breaks the bond of the covenant & the vows between the man & woman. Just like in death, a woman or man is free to move on and re-marry in the bible because the marriage bond is over, so it is also in the case of sexual immorality.