Are you sick of trying to be positive all the time in front of o

来源: Ceces 2015-09-10 22:53:12 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 0 次 (2214 bytes)
Are you sick of trying to be positive all the time in front of others?  Are you sick of society insisting that you say, "Fine!" when someone asks you how you are feeling?  Do you wonder how come more and more people get depressed and have anger management issues when you hear everyone claiming they are fine all day long?
It's because no one is ever allowed to complain about anything anymore! 
I'm a complaint queen.  While there's a lot that's going well in my life, I rarely focus on those things.  Instead, I prefer to focus on the things that are going wrong and to (you guessed it!) complain about them!  The sooner I complain about them, the better I feel! 
Usually when we complain about things to other people (like our spouse for instance), we're asking them for help in resolving the situation so we have to be careful about how we say things so that we don't offend them and so they feel like helping us to fix the problem.
Here, however... here, we can complain in any manner we like!  The people we're complaining about aren't here so we don't have to worry about offending them or angering them.  Once you get your complaints out in a safe environment, it'll be much easier to go back and play nicely with other people.  Y
ou'll have plenty of energy to remain positive with the rest of the world!

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嘻嘻,complain queen 好名字。 -江东老表- 给 江东老表 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/10/2015 postreply 23:03:00

名至实归吧?我情愿做complaintQueen,也不要每天戴着快乐的假面具做人,像Robin Williams这样戴着面具, -Ceces- 给 Ceces 发送悄悄话 Ceces 的博客首页 (92 bytes) () 09/10/2015 postreply 23:08:42

公司充满了面具人。 -江东老表- 给 江东老表 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/10/2015 postreply 23:11:03

为了生存没办法,但在家人和朋友面前最好不用戴面具,不然太辛苦了。 -Ceces- 给 Ceces 发送悄悄话 Ceces 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/10/2015 postreply 23:13:39

习惯了,就忘了自己,变成了面具代表的那个人。是training & self inprovement? -江东老表- 给 江东老表 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/10/2015 postreply 23:16:19

没错!最后多层面具太厚,撕不下来痛苦至极,要去心理医生那里去撕下来。 -Ceces- 给 Ceces 发送悄悄话 Ceces 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/10/2015 postreply 23:19:58

公司里滴人是礼貌吧,而不是面具 -听我作证- 给 听我作证 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/11/2015 postreply 00:15:45

看这楼上两位的话我就抑郁。怎么这么看世界。 -退隐老妖- 给 退隐老妖 发送悄悄话 退隐老妖 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/11/2015 postreply 01:23:40

是啊。可能有人戴面具,大部分不是,要不累死了 -听我作证- 给 听我作证 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/11/2015 postreply 01:43:33

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