Are you sick of trying to be positive all the time in front of others? Are you sick of society insisting that you say, "Fine!" when someone asks you how you are feeling? Do you wonder how come more and more people get depressed and have anger management issues when you hear everyone claiming they are fine all day long?
It's because no one is ever allowed to complain about anything anymore!
I'm a complaint queen. While there's a lot that's going well in my life, I rarely focus on those things. Instead, I prefer to focus on the things that are going wrong and to (you guessed it!) complain about them! The sooner I complain about them, the better I feel!
Usually when we complain about things to other people (like our spouse for instance), we're asking them for help in resolving the situation so we have to be careful about how we say things so that we don't offend them and so they feel like helping us to fix the problem.
Here, however... here, we can complain in any manner we like! The people we're complaining about aren't here so we don't have to worry about offending them or angering them. Once you get your complaints out in a safe environment, it'll be much easier to go back and play nicely with other people. You'll have plenty of energy to remain positive with the rest of the world!