这是中国的一种传统. 老中这样对孩子,其实是害了孩子也误了自己,这也是一种自私的表现.

为何说自私呢?因为,勒紧裤腰袋为孩子付学费的父母最终不可能不对孩子有所求的.

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• 要是既无所求,又倾囊资助孩子的呢?特完美吧? -blwinter- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/29/2011 postreply 12:00:25

• 是很完美.可是,有这样毫无私心的父母么? -lindaaa- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/29/2011 postreply 12:05:19

• 不胜枚举.特别不能理解兜里有钱但就不给孩子付学费的铁公鸡父母. -blwinter- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/29/2011 postreply 12:07:29

• 在父母养儿女是否有私心这事上,你说的与我说的程度不同. -lindaaa- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/29/2011 postreply 12:16:53

• 美国学费这么高，大多父母都得“勒紧裤腰”才能帮孩子付学费不是？很自然的亲情，不要把退休老本搭上就好。 -Manymore- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/29/2011 postreply 12:02:10

• Not really. Just need to start early and plan well. Or do not -Lex2004- ♀ (137 bytes) () 12/29/2011 postreply 12:06:40

• 对! 为子女“勒紧裤腰”,也得有个度.我见过把自己老本搭进去不少的父母, -lindaaa- ♀ (84 bytes) () 12/29/2011 postreply 12:14:06

• 对孩子无所求的父母倾囊资助也不会记得.... -奇奇^- ♀ (53 bytes) () 12/29/2011 postreply 12:07:50

• They won't say/brag but they will definitely remember... -Lex2004- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/29/2011 postreply 12:09:37

• remember and asking for return is different -奇奇^- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/29/2011 postreply 12:12:21

• By 'ji de', you mean asking for return? Then i didn't get that p -Lex2004- ♀ (172 bytes) () 12/29/2011 postreply 12:16:55

• 别嚼字了，你知道我什么意思不就行了;-) -奇奇^- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/29/2011 postreply 12:20:24

• I have been worried that my Chinese got worse. My handwriting d -Lex2004- ♀ (129 bytes) () 12/29/2011 postreply 12:21:38