他们用谁都听不懂的家乡话聊的热火朝天? That's not good but

MM, you are so young, you have bright future. in-law is a guest. I think it's common for your hu*****and to ask his mom about how to dress the kids. That's sort of 'Mei Hua Zhao Hua'They don't have too many topics to talk about. I might be wrong but You really don't need to be so sensitive. Home is not a place for battle, noone can win. Talk to your hu*****and, tell him how you fell. Good Luck