Just had a big fight with my mom, feel so bad!

My mom is here to take care of my kid. But we had lot of trouble to get alone. She always feel that I didn't give her enough money. She always said who who she knows get how much money from their child here. And I can not ask anything about my daught during the day, like what she eat, what did she drink. She think I am not trusting her, I am , well I don't know how to say her exact word in English. I even can not remind anything to her since she always forgot staff. She will think I am critsie her.... I can not take it anymore. Like tonight, she always put full kettle of water in the kettle and when it's boiling, the hot water just come out and it could burn people stand beside it, like this time it's my hu*****and's feet. it's burned. I just remind her in the future, don't put too much water in the kettle since it could hurt the kids next time. But she think I am too critisie and start to yelled at me. I am getting so angry and start to fight with her. I said she can leave tomorrow. I really can not take it anymore and this is the only place that I can speak freely. Feels good when I actually get it out.I know lots of people here will say I should do that since she is my mom. But enough is enough, even my mom!

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• 回复：Just had a big fight with my mom, feel so bad! -71253- ♀ (998 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 18:36:58

• 对这样的母亲,适可而止.最好不要住一起. -ranch99- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 20:50:33

• you did not do anything wrong in my opinion, your -黑白分明- ♀ (210 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 23:44:22

• you like your mom's daughter very much! -yongshi- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/04/2006 postreply 10:08:16

• Well does anybody had similar experience? Am I the only one? -71253- ♀ (117 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 18:44:36

• 你要有足够的钱, 就满足她吧,妈妈就一个,老人能有几天活? -24208- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 19:46:23

• 你做的很好啊,对老人要孝不要顺,,无论是谁, 小孩, -colala- ♀ (163 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 19:48:13

• agree!, but they want to put 孝 and 顺 together. -71253- ♀ (43 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 21:20:22

• they will say you are not 孝 -71253- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 21:26:12

• This is very common! -博爱- ♀ (56 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 20:59:59

• in the same boat with you -再笑一笑- ♀ (481 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 22:13:55

• What you said is really touchs me. Maybe you are right. -71253- ♀ (142 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 22:22:24

• 回复：in the same boat with you -itistrue- ♀ (19 bytes) () 01/04/2006 postreply 06:08:16

• almost exactly as my mother did to me, although -24163- ♀ (188 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 23:47:31

• I do! -15384- ♀ (1928 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 07:18:34

• Thanks for sharing your experience, let me feel -7128- ♀ (95 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 07:22:27

• 回复：I do! -NWP- ♂ (390 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 09:37:27

• Thanks a lot for all the comments. I feel much better now -71253- ♀ (171 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 21:15:09

• And I swear I will not be that kind of mom to my daughter. -71253- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 21:21:41

• Impossible before you treat your MOm better -yongshi- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/04/2006 postreply 10:10:21

• 她养大了你，并帮你带孩子(现在进行时)，她认为你欠她情 -7122- ♀ (392 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 21:40:37

• I don't really mind to give her money and I already did. -71253- ♀ (332 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 22:05:40

• 你才结婚不久吧？太追求完美了。 -6631- ♀ (306 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 22:04:36

• You are right. if we are not together it will be -71253- ♀ (148 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 22:18:53

• 回复：You are right. if we are not together it will be -15384- ♀ (950 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 07:36:51

• you should not let your parents know how much you make. -baydad- ♂ (106 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 10:41:36

• 回复：you should not let your parents know how much you make. -15384- ♀ (150 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 11:11:12

• That is so true about my mom too. God, she always -7114- ♀ (347 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 14:22:48

• 再说两句， -15384- ♀ (544 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 19:21:57

• 老人也是人,就像围城里说的:出去了想进来,进来的又想出去 -蓉儿- ♀ (180 bytes) () 01/01/2006 postreply 22:45:30

• you haven't done anything wrong. and Your mom are not -baydad- ♂ (358 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 10:48:16

• Here is an exmple: my father in-law came here and he liked to co -baydad- ♂ (342 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 10:54:29

• HaHaHa, I am soryy I just feel you inlaws are funny. -7114- ♀ (41 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 14:25:38

• This is easy stuff. If I had felt bad about this, -baydad- ♂ (28 bytes) () 01/02/2006 postreply 20:59:38

• 也有可能你当着你老公的面说她，让她下不来台，就急了。 -北雁南飞- ♀ (126 bytes) () 01/03/2006 postreply 03:00:41

• 什么样的妈妈可以帮你带孩子? -灰灰妈妈- ♀ (222 bytes) () 01/03/2006 postreply 09:46:51

• 回复：Just had a big fight with my mom, feel so bad! -72136- ♀ (878 bytes) () 01/03/2006 postreply 13:20:41

• Oh god, we had so much in common. I don't know how -65216- ♀ (91 bytes) () 01/03/2006 postreply 13:42:18

• you are so bad as a daughter! -yongshi- ♂ (13 bytes) () 01/04/2006 postreply 09:54:17