Just had a big fight with my mom, feel so bad!

My mom is here to take care of my kid. But we had lot of trouble to get alone. She always feel that I didn't give her enough money. She always said who who she knows get how much money from their child here. And I can not ask anything about my daught during the day, like what she eat, what did she drink. She think I am not trusting her, I am , well I don't know how to say her exact word in English. I even can not remind anything to her since she always forgot staff. She will think I am critsie her.... I can not take it anymore. Like tonight, she always put full kettle of water in the kettle and when it's boiling, the hot water just come out and it could burn people stand beside it, like this time it's my hu*****and's feet. it's burned. I just remind her in the future, don't put too much water in the kettle since it could hurt the kids next time. But she think I am too critisie and start to yelled at me. I am getting so angry and start to fight with her. I said she can leave tomorrow. I really can not take it anymore and this is the only place that I can speak freely. Feels good when I actually get it out.I know lots of people here will say I should do that since she is my mom. But enough is enough, even my mom!