Not Old Cat, No need to thanks, My pleasure

来源: LiveInCanada2 2007-05-04 10:01:18 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 次 (1973 bytes)
回答: Can she and her husband "borrow" theN.2007-05-03 22:28:04
I think it is better to do a loan than a will.

A will can be challenged as Single Old Cat said. The execution of a will is going to take a long time --- sell some of your asset(the house, in this case), payback your debts, arrange your responsiblilities (supporting your young kids to 18 years old and your spouse if he is unable to support himself). finally come to the stage of distributing whatever left --- this is your parents turn to claim the share.

The lawyer, who will do the house buying for you, knows how to do the loan paperworks. It is common that the money for house buying is not borrow from a bank, but from a individual (a relative a friend).
You and your hu*****and have equal titles on the house. You also sign the loan together. Each of you should be liable for the full amount of the loan, so that part of the loan will not disappear if one of you die. These are all very common terms, Your laywer knows.

Now you have to consider the payback terms. To best proptect your parents benefits, "The full amount should be payback within 30 days of date of your death." However, I strongly suggest that you do not treat your hu*****and so hard. You should discuss this with him, and arrange a payback term feasible for him -- say 5 years.
Do consider your hu*****and's situation in the event you die suddenly. He alone has to face funernal arrangements, daily life supports and worse, the accuations from your side of relatives and friends, either you die of illness/accident/suicide. Trust me, poeple who was heart-broken, turn their pain to anger, your hu*****and would be an easy target to blame. They are unreasonable for that peroid of time.
If it is an accident, he might be serverly injured too. He will need money cover the med bills and salary loss.
Be mercy, Give him some time to pay back your parents loan. Set an exception, that in case he is disable permanently, he does not need to payback the loan.


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thanks a million for your info. One more question -猪宝- 给 猪宝 发送悄悄话 (185 bytes) () 05/04/2007 postreply 11:14:26

your parents get the house -LiveInCanada2- 给 LiveInCanada2 发送悄悄话 (402 bytes) () 05/04/2007 postreply 11:40:25

very knowledgeable answer. Thanks. I just called my lawyer -猪宝- 给 猪宝 发送悄悄话 (436 bytes) () 05/04/2007 postreply 12:28:44

回复:your parents get the house -猪宝- 给 猪宝 发送悄悄话 (183 bytes) () 05/04/2007 postreply 12:58:27

回复 -單身老貓- 给 單身老貓 发送悄悄话 (1477 bytes) () 05/04/2007 postreply 17:50:24

老猫你也太酸了吧.我觉得你字字刻薄,不知是何用意. -猪宝- 给 猪宝 发送悄悄话 (560 bytes) () 05/04/2007 postreply 18:59:59

道不同不相為謀,算老貓多言了,請海涵 -單身老貓- 给 單身老貓 发送悄悄话 (4 bytes) () 05/04/2007 postreply 19:18:54

好了,我错了,对不起. 您是好人. -猪宝- 给 猪宝 发送悄悄话 (48 bytes) () 05/04/2007 postreply 20:10:14

真是不识好人心 -britannica- 给 britannica 发送悄悄话 britannica 的博客首页 (194 bytes) () 05/04/2007 postreply 19:35:48

回复:真是不识好人心 -猪宝- 给 猪宝 发送悄悄话 (297 bytes) () 05/04/2007 postreply 20:04:34

老猫以其专业知识诚心助你, 不知什么时候变成"狗拿秏子" -梦幻者- 给 梦幻者 发送悄悄话 (131 bytes) () 05/04/2007 postreply 20:09:05

老婆爱来的坛子,俺只是路过,也看不下去了 -ggww- 给 ggww 发送悄悄话 (110 bytes) () 05/05/2007 postreply 17:03:39

單身老貓 is truely wise to see the potential problems -CPA- 给 CPA 发送悄悄话 (369 bytes) () 05/04/2007 postreply 21:03:48

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