求助：ebay购物没买成，还要上法庭?

一个半月前，媳妇再ebay order 一个电子琴给我，付款方式是personal money order, 450$.
money order寄出后卖家不回email，从ebay得到的买家电话是空号。咨询ebay的结果是提供了一系列options, 其中建议stopp payment if can. 于是在money order寄出10天后stop了payment(居然还没被兑现！）并email通知了卖家。
今天收到DALLAS CHECK CASHIERS 的信。说他们: clearly qualifies as a "HOLDER IN DUE COURSE" as defined by the U.C.C.3-302, as a "Holder who takes the instrument a. for value:
b. in good faith
c without notice that it is overdue or has been dishonored or of any defence against or claim to it on the part of any person

In a situation where a check is reported lost and replacement is reissued, if the orgininal check resurfaces and is cased by the named payee, then the maker of the check is responsible for payment of both checks issued.
OR,
If the payee was not entitled to the proceeds of this instrument then it should not have been tendered to him. In effect, there is no legitimate basis for Dallas Check Cashiers to stand the loss for your error. If you will consult your attorney, they will inform you that this is a correct statement of the appicable law, and that you are without defense of our claim.

让我们十天内寄$450+$25 fees 给Dallas Check Cashiers. 否则，要告我们。

如果那个卖家是真的还有同样的东西倒是无所谓，但现在都好像和他没关系了。好像我们欠了Dallas Check Cashiers钱！！！

请各位兄台给我参谋一下，我有没有这么倒霉？
我媳妇刚生孩子，才满月。电子琴实际是我们给儿子买的。我还真担心那天警察来敲门，把我媳妇带走了，正在想把钱寄了得了，算我倒霉。

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• 回复：求助：ebay购物没买成，还要上法庭? -回复：求助：ebay- ♀ (130 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 16:24:02

• typical scenario for -tintin02- ♀ (1010 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 17:57:35

• 回复：typical scenario for -回复：typical- ♀ (176 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 18:17:53

• 我能打电话给发信给我的人吗？ -更多情况- ♀ (231 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 18:44:53

• No, you don't need to -tintin02- ♀ (900 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 19:06:24

• 回复：No, you don't need to -这样行么？- ♀ (42 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 20:28:08

• ignore them -opt_tax- ♀ (1085 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 20:52:58

• 回复：ignore them -是平信来着- ♀ (36 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 21:37:06

• 回复：求助：ebay购物没买成，还要上法庭? -usabc2991- ♀ (347 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 18:10:47

• 回复：回复：求助：ebay购物没买成，还要上法庭? -回复：回复：求助- ♀ (34 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 18:20:39

• hard to say -usabc2991- ♀ (148 bytes) () 02/27/2004 postreply 06:20:56

• 回复：求助：ebay购物没买成，还要上法庭? -lawyer250- ♀ (1463 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 18:59:10

• 回复：回复：求助：ebay购物没买成，还要上法庭? -回复：回复：求助：e- ♀ (343 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 19:29:45

• 补充一点 -lawyer250- ♀ (140 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 19:24:09

• 回复：补充一点 -回复回复：补充一点- ♀ (197 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 19:34:23

• 回复：回复：补充一点 -lawyer250- ♀ (244 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 20:08:31

• 回复：回复：回复：补充一点 -你认为我该怎么- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 20:13:48

• 回复：回复：回复：补充一点 -不要用mo阿- ♀ (72 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 20:20:01

• 回复：求助：ebay购物没买成，还要上法庭? -？？- ♀ (30 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 20:35:10

• 因为楼上的讨论实在低级，还挂Law什么的，简直是起哄！ -基本票据不懂- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 20:39:15

• 回复：因为楼上的讨论实在低级，还挂Law什么的，简直是起哄！ -还是没法贴回信- ♀ (63 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 20:44:22

• 拿了东西的就要付钱，没有拿到就不付或拒付。东西不 -这么简单的事情- ♀ (438 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 20:55:44

• 谢谢大家 -决定不理他- ♀ (103 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 21:32:32

• 完了？不再讨论了？就因为我发了两条？ -这么简单的事情- ♀ (371 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 21:40:49

• 回复：完了？不再讨论了？就因为我发了两条？ -law250- ♀ (204 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 21:54:10

• Two Separate Cases -BlueBerryM- ♀ (193 bytes) () 02/27/2004 postreply 11:07:23

• 一点建议 -law250- ♀ (687 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 22:24:03

• 回复：一点建议 -这样回信行吗？- ♀ (1143 bytes) () 02/27/2004 postreply 06:26:34

• eBay is useless. -usabc2991- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/27/2004 postreply 06:30:16

• 主要责任在于票据的背书人，居士倾向劳叶兄的观点。 -法居士- ♀ (304 bytes) () 02/26/2004 postreply 22:51:15

• 居士兄别把国内票据法的规定拿美国来用！ -law250- ♀ (286 bytes) () 02/27/2004 postreply 09:16:12

• 回复：求助：这样回信 -求助：这样回信行么- ♀ (1222 bytes) () 02/27/2004 postreply 07:49:18

• 回复：回复：求助：这样回信 -law250- ♀ (254 bytes) () 02/27/2004 postreply 09:31:27

• 案情进展 -wiect- ♀ (297 bytes) () 02/27/2004 postreply 13:57:29