当我真正开始爱自己


1889年的今天,一代喜剧之王查理·卓别林诞生。别认为他只是头戴圆顶礼帽、持手杖、登大皮靴、走路像鸭子的“流浪汉夏尔洛”,其实,他也是一位充满人生智慧的诗人。


 
As I Began to Love Myself (inspiring video)


As I begin to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know, this is AUTHENTICITY.
 

As I began to love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody if I try to force my desires on this person, even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it, and even though this person was me. Today I call it RESPECT.
 

As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow. Today I call it MATURITY.
 

As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens at the exactly right moment. So I could be calm. Today I call it SELF-CONFIDENCE.
 

As I began to love myself I quit stealing my own time, and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm. Today I call it SIMPLICITY.
 

As I began to love myself I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health – food, people, things, situations, and everything that drew me down and away from myself. At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism. Today I know it is LOVE OF ONESELF.
 

As I began to love myself I quit trying to always be right, and ever since I was wrong less of the time. Today I discovered that is MODESTY.
 

As I began to love myself I refused to go on living in the past and worrying about the future. Now, I only live for the moment, where everything is happening. Today I live each day, day by day, and I call it FULFILLMENT.
 

As I began to love myself I recognized that my mind can disturb me and it can make me sick. But as I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally. Today I call this connection WISDOM OF THE HEART.
 

We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or any kind of problems with ourselves or others. Even stars collide, and out of their crashing new worlds are born. Today I know THAT IS LIFE.
 

-Charlie Chaplin

 


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嗯。我喜欢这个人。 -大江川- 给 大江川 发送悄悄话 大江川 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 17:19:57

+1 -吃与活- 给 吃与活 发送悄悄话 吃与活 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 17:26:07

人生近看是场悲剧,远看是场喜剧.--卓别林(Life is a tragedy when seen in close-up, b -闽姑- 给 闽姑 发送悄悄话 闽姑 的博客首页 (89 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 18:02:49

太深奥了,俺只知道“乱烘烘你方唱罢我登场,反认他乡是故乡。 甚荒唐,到头来都是为他人做嫁衣裳” -吃与活- 给 吃与活 发送悄悄话 吃与活 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 18:10:00

这个也太悲了.全是那空空道人的情伤论. -闽姑- 给 闽姑 发送悄悄话 闽姑 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 18:19:03

是啊,读着读着,就抑郁了。还是老外阳光开朗乐观 -吃与活- 给 吃与活 发送悄悄话 吃与活 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 18:21:32

当义工,无偿为社会服务,天天替他人做嫁衣的人海多了,何悲之有? -gtcharlie- 给 gtcharlie 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/17/2015 postreply 10:14:30

难得大江喜欢,呵呵~~.回国一趟你喝了什么好酒? -闽姑- 给 闽姑 发送悄悄话 闽姑 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 17:46:29

谢谢闽妹所转资讯。当然是茅台与5粮液,不多喝,3,5瓶盖。目下,整点白葡萄酒,我特喜欢那种橡木桶味。 -大江川- 给 大江川 发送悄悄话 大江川 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 19:14:31

第一次在美国买酒时,就不小心买了一瓶浓烈橡木桶味的葡萄酒,还老贵.实在太难闻了,受不了. -闽姑- 给 闽姑 发送悄悄话 闽姑 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 19:31:11

啥酒? -TBz- 给 TBz 发送悄悄话 TBz 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 20:28:57

物真价实,tingfeng style -吃与活- 给 吃与活 发送悄悄话 吃与活 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 18:08:28

听说好象有啊,在你回国的时候 -吃与活- 给 吃与活 发送悄悄话 吃与活 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 18:17:01

;) -吃与活- 给 吃与活 发送悄悄话 吃与活 的博客首页 (6 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 18:38:03

据说不止一个 -TBz- 给 TBz 发送悄悄话 TBz 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/16/2015 postreply 20:33:29

Wow! So much truth in this! -明月关- 给 明月关 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/17/2015 postreply 11:23:40

奇怪哈,responsibility上哪儿去了? -随意001- 给 随意001 发送悄悄话 随意001 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/17/2015 postreply 16:05:20

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