我们可以让自己更快乐些吗?


随便摘译几条Rotterdam(鹿特丹)采集整理来自全球幸福数据库的研究:
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1)适度饮酒的人比滴酒不沾者幸福;
2)男人被夸帅的感觉比女人被赞美更幸福;
3)抚养子女降低幸福,子女成人离家后幸福回升;
4)往往会觉得更幸福,假如觉得自己好看而不是实际和客观上的好看;
5)生活中有10%的时间是悲伤的反而有好处.

Studies collated by the database say you tend to be happier if you:

  • Are in a long-term relationship
  • Are actively engaged in politics
  • Are active in work and in your free time
  • Go out for dinner
  • Have close friendships (though happiness does not increase with the number of friends you have)

And there are some surprising findings:

  • People who drink in moderation are happier than people who don't drink at all.
  • Men tend to be happier in a society where women enjoy greater equality.
  • Being considered good looking increases men's happiness more than it does women's.
  • You tend to be happier if you think you're good looking, rather than if you actually, objectively speaking, are.
  • Having children lowers your happiness levels, but your happiness increases when they grow up and leave home.

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贴一个色彩搭配出色的2014年春夏男士时装秀献给健康坛的男士们. 流坛少有男性的时尚贴, 也因为下面这一条会使男士觉得更幸福~~.
 

2)男人被夸帅的感觉比女人被赞美更幸福;

 

男士们也可以打破自己单调的灰黑白着装色系. 
下面视频里有几款同色系服装 + 一双鲜艳的鞋或领带就点缀很不错.
男士也时尚最好.会让自己感觉更年轻更自信更幸福.

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一看到你的第一句我就急急忙忙去倒了杯酒,结果酒喝完了看完最后一句居然是建议去锻炼不要喝酒? -Manymore- 给 Manymore 发送悄悄话 Manymore 的博客首页 (130 bytes) () 06/30/2013 postreply 21:44:23

真聪明,真的读完全文的人.哈哈哈,晚安! -闽姑- 给 闽姑 发送悄悄话 闽姑 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/30/2013 postreply 21:49:02

呵呵~~快乐有时不在吃上或喝上,运动不仅能健身防病,还能使人快乐. -闽姑- 给 闽姑 发送悄悄话 闽姑 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/01/2013 postreply 09:09:08

我看到第一句,越发不快乐了 :-( -TBz- 给 TBz 发送悄悄话 TBz 的博客首页 (151 bytes) () 06/30/2013 postreply 22:40:00

开电风扇了没?你没喝凉茶?那可是国内的最佳广告之一,连"好声音"都是它赞助的. -闽姑- 给 闽姑 发送悄悄话 闽姑 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/01/2013 postreply 06:43:26

风扇开了。凉的茶也喝了,但没喝凉茶。 -TBz- 给 TBz 发送悄悄话 TBz 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/01/2013 postreply 07:58:28

你对微信熟悉吗?国内的人以前用QQ,现在又流行微信.昨天 -闽姑- 给 闽姑 发送悄悄话 闽姑 的博客首页 (58 bytes) () 07/01/2013 postreply 09:13:18

现在很火的,我还没有开始用 -TBz- 给 TBz 发送悄悄话 TBz 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/01/2013 postreply 09:16:41

谢谢信息.我是一窍不通. -闽姑- 给 闽姑 发送悄悄话 闽姑 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/01/2013 postreply 10:09:00

不快乐的根源在不恰当的比较。快乐不能建筑在私欲上。不以物喜,不以己悲。 -intools- 给 intools 发送悄悄话 intools 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/01/2013 postreply 07:34:31

不以物喜,不以己悲可能是empathy, 表明你可能有depression -Manymore- 给 Manymore 发送悄悄话 Manymore 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/01/2013 postreply 10:31:10

都有道理:) -BetterBest- 给 BetterBest 发送悄悄话 BetterBest 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/01/2013 postreply 14:50:15

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