各位大侠给出出主意,我该怎么办?提前多谢了!!!

各位大侠给出出主意,我该怎么办?提前多谢了!!!
话说自己的前老板,60 左右的老女人,待人处事,一向是以对她自己的job security有没有好处来决定。为此,得罪的人不计其数。
她所提拔的都是干活不行,但是 obedient, 马术一流的家活,只要会拍,英语说不出囫囵句子都没问题,反正提拔了这种人,也威胁取代不了她。本人不幸,属于能者多劳,技术全面,少数能有资格取代此老女人的候选人,也因此受尽她无所不用其极的压迫。
如此历尽艰难熬过三年,终于她在年中的改组中被安排去领导一个没啥用的课题小组了。
三十年河东,三十年河西,恐怕她自己也没想到:过去几年她编造理由不给我晋升,现在轮到我给她年终评定出reference了。本想,反正她已经是昨日黄花了,过去就过去了。可是,我新来的老板是个很会play game的家伙,玩儿office politics很在行,现在我有机会不把跟前老板的丑话说在前头,万一现在的老板找前老板给我出reference, 那么我就被动了;
可是短短几个月的接触,现在的老板也不象踏实干活的人,我怕在他手下又出现功高盖主的事,让他嫉恨,那么如此一来,我把跟前老板的丑话说在前头, 给我的感觉好象:鹬蚌相争,渔翁得利.
TNND, 现在这年月,混口踏实饭吃真难哪!请各位大侠多多指教,提前多谢了!!!

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回复:找个不懂的老板多少啊, 不听你劝告, 你就慢慢和他耗吧 -quicktime2004- 给 quicktime2004 发送悄悄话 quicktime2004 的博客首页 (40 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 19:55:49

你怎么对待前老板,现在老板猜你以后会这样对待他 -Easy.Spin- 给 Easy.Spin 发送悄悄话 Easy.Spin 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 20:06:30

回复:你怎么对待前老板,现在老板猜你以后会这样对待他 -CristalDaisy- 给 CristalDaisy 发送悄悄话 (124 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 20:10:09

You can offer objective input, but avoid personal attack -Easy.Spin- 给 Easy.Spin 发送悄悄话 Easy.Spin 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 20:13:56

Is it difficult to differentiate objective input vs. personal at -CristalDaisy- 给 CristalDaisy 发送悄悄话 (44 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 20:20:56

All I want is fair play, my former boss failed on this,and -CristalDaisy- 给 CristalDaisy 发送悄悄话 (139 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 20:13:47

实话实说,别指望前老板会给你出好的reference. -''''''- 给 '''''' 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 06:24:35

praise her as much as you can -Kaolin007- 给 Kaolin007 发送悄悄话 Kaolin007 的博客首页 (177 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 06:58:24

I would like to try, but no one can imagine how's the hard time -CristalDaisy- 给 CristalDaisy 发送悄悄话 (384 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 07:17:35

回复:I would like to try, but no one can imagine how's the hard ti -Kaolin007- 给 Kaolin007 发送悄悄话 Kaolin007 的博客首页 (526 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 07:26:24

No "thank you" notes for such good suggestion?? -Kaolin007- 给 Kaolin007 发送悄悄话 Kaolin007 的博客首页 (50 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 07:57:12

Thank you Kaolin, didn -CristalDaisy- 给 CristalDaisy 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 08:08:44

Thank you Kaolin, didn't get chance to write back, but -CristalDaisy- 给 CristalDaisy 发送悄悄话 (635 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 08:20:17

回复:Thank you Kaolin, didn't get chance to write back, but -Kaolin007- 给 Kaolin007 发送悄悄话 Kaolin007 的博客首页 (74 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 11:05:31

You have received the best answer -胡说之- 给 胡说之 发送悄悄话 胡说之 的博客首页 (275 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 10:05:02

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