各位大侠给出出主意,我该怎么办?提前多谢了!!!
话说自己的前老板,60 左右的老女人,待人处事,一向是以对她自己的job security有没有好处来决定。为此,得罪的人不计其数。
她所提拔的都是干活不行,但是 obedient, 马术一流的家活,只要会拍,英语说不出囫囵句子都没问题,反正提拔了这种人,也威胁取代不了她。本人不幸,属于能者多劳,技术全面,少数能有资格取代此老女人的候选人,也因此受尽她无所不用其极的压迫。
如此历尽艰难熬过三年,终于她在年中的改组中被安排去领导一个没啥用的课题小组了。
三十年河东,三十年河西,恐怕她自己也没想到:过去几年她编造理由不给我晋升,现在轮到我给她年终评定出reference了。本想,反正她已经是昨日黄花了,过去就过去了。可是,我新来的老板是个很会play game的家伙,玩儿office politics很在行,现在我有机会不把跟前老板的丑话说在前头,万一现在的老板找前老板给我出reference, 那么我就被动了;
可是短短几个月的接触,现在的老板也不象踏实干活的人,我怕在他手下又出现功高盖主的事,让他嫉恨,那么如此一来,我把跟前老板的丑话说在前头, 给我的感觉好象:鹬蚌相争,渔翁得利.
TNND, 现在这年月,混口踏实饭吃真难哪!请各位大侠多多指教,提前多谢了!!!
各位大侠给出出主意,我该怎么办?提前多谢了!!!
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回复:找个不懂的老板多少啊, 不听你劝告, 你就慢慢和他耗吧
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12/14/2010 postreply
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你怎么对待前老板,现在老板猜你以后会这样对待他
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12/14/2010 postreply
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回复:你怎么对待前老板,现在老板猜你以后会这样对待他
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12/14/2010 postreply
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You can offer objective input, but avoid personal attack
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20:13:56
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Is it difficult to differentiate objective input vs. personal at
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12/14/2010 postreply
20:20:56
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All I want is fair play, my former boss failed on this,and
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12/14/2010 postreply
20:13:47
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实话实说,别指望前老板会给你出好的reference.
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12/15/2010 postreply
06:24:35
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praise her as much as you can
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12/15/2010 postreply
06:58:24
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I would like to try, but no one can imagine how's the hard time
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12/15/2010 postreply
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回复:I would like to try, but no one can imagine how's the hard ti
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12/15/2010 postreply
07:26:24
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No "thank you" notes for such good suggestion??
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12/15/2010 postreply
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Thank you Kaolin, didn
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12/15/2010 postreply
08:08:44
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Thank you Kaolin, didn't get chance to write back, but
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回复:Thank you Kaolin, didn't get chance to write back, but
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12/15/2010 postreply
11:05:31
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You have received the best answer
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12/15/2010 postreply
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