各位大侠给出出主意，我该怎么办？提前多谢了！！！

各位大侠给出出主意，我该怎么办？提前多谢了！！！
话说自己的前老板，60 左右的老女人，待人处事，一向是以对她自己的job security有没有好处来决定。为此，得罪的人不计其数。
她所提拔的都是干活不行，但是 obedient, 马术一流的家活，只要会拍，英语说不出囫囵句子都没问题，反正提拔了这种人，也威胁取代不了她。本人不幸，属于能者多劳，技术全面，少数能有资格取代此老女人的候选人，也因此受尽她无所不用其极的压迫。
如此历尽艰难熬过三年，终于她在年中的改组中被安排去领导一个没啥用的课题小组了。
三十年河东，三十年河西，恐怕她自己也没想到：过去几年她编造理由不给我晋升，现在轮到我给她年终评定出reference了。本想，反正她已经是昨日黄花了，过去就过去了。可是，我新来的老板是个很会play game的家伙，玩儿office politics很在行，现在我有机会不把跟前老板的丑话说在前头，万一现在的老板找前老板给我出reference, 那么我就被动了;
可是短短几个月的接触，现在的老板也不象踏实干活的人，我怕在他手下又出现功高盖主的事，让他嫉恨，那么如此一来,我把跟前老板的丑话说在前头, 给我的感觉好象：鹬蚌相争，渔翁得利.
TNND, 现在这年月，混口踏实饭吃真难哪！请各位大侠多多指教，提前多谢了！！！

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• 回复：找个不懂的老板多少啊， 不听你劝告， 你就慢慢和他耗吧 -quicktime2004- ♂ (40 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 19:55:49

• 你怎么对待前老板，现在老板猜你以后会这样对待他 -Easy.Spin- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 20:06:30

• 回复：你怎么对待前老板，现在老板猜你以后会这样对待他 -CristalDaisy- ♀ (124 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 20:10:09

• You can offer objective input, but avoid personal attack -Easy.Spin- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 20:13:56

• Is it difficult to differentiate objective input vs. personal at -CristalDaisy- ♀ (44 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 20:20:56

• All I want is fair play, my former boss failed on this,and -CristalDaisy- ♀ (139 bytes) () 12/14/2010 postreply 20:13:47

• 实话实说,别指望前老板会给你出好的reference. -''''''- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 06:24:35

• praise her as much as you can -Kaolin007- ♂ (177 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 06:58:24

• I would like to try, but no one can imagine how's the hard time -CristalDaisy- ♀ (384 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 07:17:35

• 回复：I would like to try, but no one can imagine how's the hard ti -Kaolin007- ♂ (526 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 07:26:24

• No "thank you" notes for such good suggestion?? -Kaolin007- ♂ (50 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 07:57:12

• Thank you Kaolin, didn -CristalDaisy- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 08:08:44

• Thank you Kaolin, didn't get chance to write back, but -CristalDaisy- ♀ (635 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 08:20:17

• 回复：Thank you Kaolin, didn't get chance to write back, but -Kaolin007- ♂ (74 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 11:05:31

• You have received the best answer -胡说之- ♂ (275 bytes) () 12/15/2010 postreply 10:05:02