no promotion

来源: 天真真 于 2009-09-03 19:31:01 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (536 bytes)

I did all the complicated projects in my group, I thought I would be promoted this year,but another person who even doesn't have a qualified degree (she is very good at kissing up) did. I fixed her problems several times. I already talked about this to my manager, who said she did what she could, it's the upper level. I am thinking to make an appointment with the boss of my manager. Any suggestions are appreciated.Eventhogh nothing can be changed, but I am so mad right now and I feel I should let them know I am treated unfairly.

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• 先和你的manager讨论一下你的想法, 征求一下她/他的意见.. -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 19:34:35

• I did.She doesn't want me to talk with her boss. The one just go -天真真- ♀ 给 天真真 发送悄悄话 天真真 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 19:44:44

• did you ask her how you can get promoted? or ask her -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (37 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 19:48:05

• 回复：did you ask her how you can get promoted? or ask her -天真真- ♀ 给 天真真 发送悄悄话 天真真 的博客首页 (63 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 19:50:31

• 你有没有很直白地和她说你希望被promote? 和自己的 -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (145 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 19:55:50

• I did. -天真真- ♀ 给 天真真 发送悄悄话 天真真 的博客首页 (7 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 19:59:16

• 有点suspicious -二莽娃- ♂ 给 二莽娃 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 19:49:10

• 对。了解 1）manager怎样在帮你；2）她在boss那里的份量。 -二莽娃- ♂ 给 二莽娃 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 19:47:09

• 回复：对。了解 1）manager怎样在帮你；2）她在boss那里的份量。 -天真真- ♀ 给 天真真 发送悄悄话 天真真 的博客首页 (114 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 19:52:52

• 哦, 你有没有问她denied的原因呢? -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 19:57:19

• I has not worked long enough in the company. -天真真- ♀ 给 天真真 发送悄悄话 天真真 的博客首页 (124 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:02:18

• 回复：先和你的manager讨论一下你的想法, 征求一下她/他的意见.. -天真真- ♀ 给 天真真 发送悄悄话 天真真 的博客首页 (171 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 19:48:39

• either she may not want to stay long or has background -二莽娃- ♂ 给 二莽娃 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 19:51:32

• 回复：either she may not want to stay long or has background -天真真- ♀ 给 天真真 发送悄悄话 天真真 的博客首页 (81 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 19:54:45

• that gas may come right on time when pathologist are tired at mi -二莽娃- ♂ 给 二莽娃 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:02:04

• sorry, I want to say "that's the answer" -二莽娃- ♂ 给 二莽娃 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:02:44

• 回复：sorry, I want to say "that's the answer" -天真真- ♀ 给 天真真 发送悄悄话 天真真 的博客首页 (167 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:05:41

• what you say is right. You cannot win in this situation but only -二莽娃- ♂ 给 二莽娃 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:10:39

• but only what? I really want to know. -天真真- ♀ 给 天真真 发送悄悄话 天真真 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:20:02

• me too. -jill08- ♀ 给 jill08 发送悄悄话 (23 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:21:46

• "she is very good at kissing up"--shall we call it : effective w -撅着挺好- ♂ 给 撅着挺好 发送悄悄话 (259 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:07:47

• effective way of communication. -撅着挺好- ♂ 给 撅着挺好 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:09:45

• stay calm is hard. I feel so unfair. -天真真- ♀ 给 天真真 发送悄悄话 天真真 的博客首页 (210 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:13:28

• understood. its life, take it or leave it, its up to u. best of -撅着挺好- ♂ 给 撅着挺好 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:18:03

• 回复：understood. its life, take it or leave it, its up to u. best -天真真- ♀ 给 天真真 发送悄悄话 天真真 的博客首页 (90 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:32:11

• 你可以找，但于事无补，沟通在平时，不是出事之后。 -撅着挺好- ♂ 给 撅着挺好 发送悄悄话 (42 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:36:07

• more like a crying baby. -jill08- ♀ 给 jill08 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:37:04

• reminds me of 小撅~~ -撅着挺好- ♂ 给 撅着挺好 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:40:40

• More pictures of 小撅 please. -jill08- ♀ 给 jill08 发送悄悄话 (14 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:45:09

• i'm lazy dad, didnt take photo recently, sorry // nite Ms. LOL~~ -撅着挺好- ♂ 给 撅着挺好 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:47:34

• 回复：你可以找，但于事无补，沟通在平时，不是出事之后。 -天真真- ♀ 给 天真真 发送悄悄话 天真真 的博客首页 (70 bytes) () 09/04/2009 postreply 21:03:44

• 回复：no promotion -天真真- ♀ 给 天真真 发送悄悄话 天真真 的博客首页 (48 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:07:59

• Ask yourself.. -jill08- ♀ 给 jill08 发送悄悄话 (1285 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 20:15:49

• 要么你的老板是个白痴，要么你的资格不够。People! -鼓投清- ♂ 给 鼓投清 发送悄悄话 (151 bytes) () 09/03/2009 postreply 21:23:38

• 没什么好谈的, 说什么都无济于事 -问问玩- ♀ 给 问问玩 发送悄悄话 (659 bytes) () 09/04/2009 postreply 06:30:37

• 我替她谢谢你！ -两孩子她妈- ♀ 给 两孩子她妈 发送悄悄话 (38 bytes) () 09/04/2009 postreply 19:30:26

• kissing up is important -Cathy_Bay- ♀ 给 Cathy_Bay 发送悄悄话 (147 bytes) () 09/04/2009 postreply 19:53:05

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