回复：回复：回复：谢谢各位大侠的点拨，今晚整理、归纳了大家给的意见后，确实看到我的危险处境!

Hill, regarding people may have different comments, here is something might be related to it. Your team members, you bosses, and your peers - like leads for other departments. Your team members want you to be aggressive to protect them, depend them, or asking for high visible projects. Your bosses want you to be aggressive to help them, meet the goals for their bosses. Your peers want you to be support them, understanding them. So it is possible that when people talk about aggressive, they mean different thing.

I definitely agree with 戏雨飞鹰. I do not feel things are that bad. Do not swing too much. Believe in yourself. Good luck

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• hmm, i like your acute analysis of the issue about being aggr -戏雨飞鹰- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/15/2009 postreply 07:35:42

• analysis of aggrresiveness -戏雨飞鹰- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/15/2009 postreply 07:38:52

• 谢谢戏雨飞燕和Littlepencil两位妹妹的鼓励！ -Hill- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/15/2009 postreply 07:44:43