This is not about $, but whether I should choose China

over him.

I will not need to live w. his parents or anyone else for a long time to come. I can afford for both of us to live in NYC for quite a long time. It is more a question that should I go for my career, which could potentionally be good and more rewarding in China, or should I be with him, despite all the uncertainties now and in the forseeable future? At my age, this is a once in a life time chance to go back to China.

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I hope this can put you in perspective once and for all -Simply_leaf- 给 Simply_leaf 发送悄悄话 Simply_leaf 的博客首页 (622 bytes) () 11/13/2008 postreply 18:10:18

Problem is he is so NOT Chinese -honeybird- 给 honeybird 发送悄悄话 (588 bytes) () 11/13/2008 postreply 21:49:57

Neither were U so American! Were you so successful when -报社记者- 给 报社记者 发送悄悄话 报社记者 的博客首页 (698 bytes) () 11/13/2008 postreply 22:17:37

I totally agree. His lack of flexbility and desire -honeybird- 给 honeybird 发送悄悄话 (305 bytes) () 11/13/2008 postreply 22:25:12

呵呵,连你都在替他找借口了!男人33丝毫不比女人23更劣势 -报社记者- 给 报社记者 发送悄悄话 报社记者 的博客首页 (440 bytes) () 11/13/2008 postreply 23:04:08

think I had more choices at 23:-). Not to find excuse for him -honeybird- 给 honeybird 发送悄悄话 (597 bytes) () 11/13/2008 postreply 23:40:30

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