在网上，我就直说了吧。我觉得你们俩虽然是学金融的，但你们没管好自己的财富分配

他３３岁有家在加拿大可以回，他能缓一缓长大，以后再出发。

可你哪？３５岁的大姑娘了，从婚姻和财富积累上，都看到黄灯了，该接受教训。

我要是你，我选择跟他走，先把一件事情解决了，再集中精力找工作，以你的能力应该可以找到，但这期间大概你要受委屈。他听起来人不错。忍忍吧。也是成熟的过程。

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• You have a point. But not sure what I'd have chosen differently -honeybird- ♀ (1028 bytes) () 11/13/2008 postreply 17:31:30

• This is not about $, but whether I should choose China -honeybird- ♀ (442 bytes) () 11/13/2008 postreply 17:41:19

• I hope this can put you in perspective once and for all -Simply_leaf- ♀ (622 bytes) () 11/13/2008 postreply 18:10:18

• Problem is he is so NOT Chinese -honeybird- ♀ (588 bytes) () 11/13/2008 postreply 21:49:57

• Neither were U so American! Were you so successful when -报社记者- ♂ (698 bytes) () 11/13/2008 postreply 22:17:37

• I totally agree. His lack of flexbility and desire -honeybird- ♀ (305 bytes) () 11/13/2008 postreply 22:25:12

• 呵呵，连你都在替他找借口了！男人33丝毫不比女人23更劣势 -报社记者- ♂ (440 bytes) () 11/13/2008 postreply 23:04:08

• think I had more choices at 23:-). Not to find excuse for him -honeybird- ♀ (597 bytes) () 11/13/2008 postreply 23:40:30