1. Myomectomy is the surgical removal of each individual tumor without damage to the uterus, preserving a woman's ability to conceive. However, fibroids will often grow back and although it is possible to have a myomectomy repeated, multiple myomectomies can cause other problems such as the walls of the uterus sticking together due to scarring.
2. Hysterectomy is the surgical removal of the entire uterus while remain both ovaries. It's a pretty common gynaecological surgery. However, physcologically, quite a few women are concerned if the removal of the uterus would affect the quality of sexuality.
If your friend really really doesn't want a surgery, after consulting with her OB/GYN, the OB/GYN considers it could be alternated, there are certain alternatives:
Western Medicine:
Surgical Hysterectomy Alternatives
Myomectomy
Endometrial ablation
Uterine artery embalization
Uterine balloon therapy
Adhesiolysis
Hormonal Pharmacological Hysterectomy Alternatives
GnRH agonists with add-back therapy
Oral contraceptives
Androgens
RU-486
Gestrinone
Non-Hormonal Pharmacological Hysterectomy Alternatives
NSAIDs - Non-Steroidal Anti-Inflammatory Drugs
Chinese Medicine:
Chinese herbs (sorry I can't provide inf. for I wasn't specialized on Chinese medicine)
Acupuncture
Hope all is well with your friend. Good luck.