Disagree!

It is really mainly determined by genes; how the neural system is made will play a major role in determining the personality. Of course education/enviorment will also contribute.

I had thought about this and finally found that: it is really not that a big deal. Many sucessful people are also very very shy. The key point is to find the strongest point of yourself. Being shy is not necessarily a bad thing, as long as one can find a good way show his/her strong point.

Just my 2 cents.

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• Yes, indeed. -陌上花开缓缓行- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 06:44:00

• very true -泥佛- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 06:44:21

• Disagree!　自闭有先天的也有后天的。 -大号蚂蚁- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 06:45:36

• 你瞎说。 -陌上花开缓缓行- ♀ (187 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 06:47:43

• 不懂了吧。自闭的原因现在众说纷纭。六成认为先天，四成认为后天。其中 -大号蚂蚁- ♂ (119 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 07:03:26

• haha, it is difficult to argue something -Smart- ♂ (501 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 07:08:43

• 同性恋是先天的还是后天的？其实是一个道理，量变导致质变。 -大号蚂蚁- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 07:10:22

• agree with this. Gene does not determine -blackmatter- ♀ (209 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 07:21:49

• 孩子出了问题，完全否定后天作用是不负责的表现。 -大号蚂蚁- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 07:25:05

• Based on what i've seen, many chinese shy kids -blackmatter- ♀ (80 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 07:32:29

• 我人为是综合原因。自闭是个量变。在某个程度上划分为有问题和仅仅于有倾向。所以 -大号蚂蚁- ♂ (99 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 07:09:02

• 反过来说，如果家长反向于治疗自闭症的办法对待自己的孩子，那么有可能又不自闭而自闭。 -大号蚂蚁- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 07:13:33

• 无知无畏。 -陌上花开缓缓行- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 07:20:26

• i believe our discussion is -Smart- ♂ (205 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 07:18:37

• 楼主的本题就是后天人文导致性格蜕变。你不同意，我同意。没跑题。 -大号蚂蚁- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 07:22:41

• sorry, disagree -Smart- ♂ (364 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 06:49:53

• 被abused的小孩从来不会变成自闭。 -陌上花开缓缓行- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 06:51:26

• thanks for correcting me. -Smart- ♂ (70 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 06:52:06

• can not agree more -lily3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 06:45:37

• 非常，非常同意。不要把家長嚴厲和小孩性格整天混在一起。 -amiyumi- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 07:29:29

• well. at least it doesn't help. : ) -blackmatter- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/03/2012 postreply 07:38:31