儿子被诊断为轻度ADD,该告诉学校吗?

同时被医生告知他是gifted(IQ 143)孩子,他在班上最小,我想让他留一级,但医生说他会boring,留一级会worse.医生也不建议他吃药.

他成绩大部分维持在85-95,一次特糟糕的50,因为没做,课上不知在干什么.数学在gift 班,中上等成绩很稳定.

愁死了,大家帮忙分析一下,再让他上一年三年级可行吗?我该怎么办?

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• 应该告诉学校吧？希望学校和老师特别注意一下，不知道 -毕小珠-- ♀ (64 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:23:43

• 我觉得这种情况，你还是随他吧，不要做过多的要求 -blueMoon:)- ♀ (104 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:23:51

• require school give you a IEP plan -blcu- ♀ (267 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:36:04

• Thanks,what is IEP plan?will he kicked off from school? -真得要绝望了- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:47:05

• Individual Education Plan required by law in public school -blackmatter- ♀ (25 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:05:31

• If you need school's accomodations and behavior -blackmatter- ♀ (524 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:36:32

• 谢谢,您的孩子现在走出来了吗? -真得要绝望了- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:49:42

• Still has Cs and Bs in his grade, purely due to poor -blackmatter- ♀ (267 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:01:54

• I don't agree with you. Holding back means he will -BLCU- ♀ (104 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:10:52

• There is 0 tolerance in bullying and teasing in our dist. -blackmatter- ♀ (37 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:18:55

• If i could do this again, i would switch school, and hold back -blackmatter- ♀ (60 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:25:49

• 不要着急，听医生的建议，另外要告诉学校，以便得到学校的配合。 -xiaofangdong- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:39:03

• 绝对不应该流级。他的ADD是他的gifted的一部分。 -kozy- ♀ (330 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:39:41

• You might think differently, if 1. you have a ADHD + very -blackmatter- ♀ (133 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:45:57

• yes,very struggle and frustration for whole family everyday -真得要绝望了- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:52:34

• 回这种叫twice exceptional kids。 -kozy- ♀ (110 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:57:31

• agree -blcu- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:42:11

• 不用绝望，就是以后妈妈要多陪多费心。将来会很出色的。 -家有小学生- ♀ (39 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:44:32

• 请问到哪里找线索发现这样的program? -真得要绝望了- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:54:16

• 你到附近的大学网站查查，另外学校或学区也有Info。 -家有小学生- ♀ (37 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:58:30

• 不要绝望。 耐心引导他在集体场合行为规范，接受他不是一个模范孩子 -水儿~- ♀ (31 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:55:28

• 应该告诉学校，一般学校对这种孩子有特殊服务 -听听意见- ♀ (106 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:15:28

• 听专家的意见，加上家长自己做功课 -酱紫- ♀ (218 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:29:56

• 回复：儿子被诊断为轻度ADD,该告诉学校吗? -april2007- ♀ (565 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:58:59

• taking advantage of having ADD?can you give an example? -真得要绝望了- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 11:05:00

• They can not focus so they ask for longer time to complete the e -april2007- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 11:17:56

• My kid never took that "advantages". Does it show on -blackmatter- ♀ (48 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 11:39:38

• A kid I know, teacher said she was ADD, but went to Harvard -ShengQi- ♀ (41 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 11:48:52