If you need school's accomodations and behavior

management support, you need to let school know, so that your son can get IEP or at least 504 plan.
Hold back 1-2 grades and supplement with high level classes or activities that matches his interests at out of school time.
I went through your problem when my kid was young. I wish i hold his grade back for 1-2 years.
The GPA in high school is mainly reflect self discipline and management skill not IQs. Ave. IQ + High EQ+ organization skill +self discipline has much higher success rate than very high IQ + ADD.

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• 谢谢,您的孩子现在走出来了吗? -真得要绝望了- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:49:42

• Still has Cs and Bs in his grade, purely due to poor -blackmatter- ♀ (267 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:01:54

• I don't agree with you. Holding back means he will -BLCU- ♀ (104 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:10:52

• There is 0 tolerance in bullying and teasing in our dist. -blackmatter- ♀ (37 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:18:55

• If i could do this again, i would switch school, and hold back -blackmatter- ♀ (60 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:25:49