I am not good at handling confrontation. The most natural

来源: christmas2008 2008-12-11 11:53:09 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 次 (330 bytes)
way I would choose at that shocking situation would be to walk way wordless. I am a new person in my field, actually I have been in the same field for almost 10 years, and I exprienced quite a few giant companies in pharmaceutical industry. Never was I or anyone I know who dresses nice treated like this. That's what shocked me.

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给你个招儿.送他一合黑巧克力,让他分泌些好的神经介质,管用! -shoeshoarder- 给 shoeshoarder 发送悄悄话 shoeshoarder 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2008 postreply 12:21:29

我觉得你有些defensive了~~~他说你不一定是针对你,你不用shock, -多情总被猪头恼- 给 多情总被猪头恼 发送悄悄话 多情总被猪头恼 的博客首页 (391 bytes) () 12/11/2008 postreply 12:24:53

It is not about confrontation, it is about communication. -洁心- 给 洁心 发送悄悄话 洁心 的博客首页 (1261 bytes) () 12/11/2008 postreply 12:26:28

very well said! -多情总被猪头恼- 给 多情总被猪头恼 发送悄悄话 多情总被猪头恼 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2008 postreply 12:32:01

well said! -笛笛- 给 笛笛 发送悄悄话 笛笛 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2008 postreply 13:03:10

You are so right. -proserpina- 给 proserpina 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2008 postreply 13:05:48

if he points out anything against the company policy or code -christmas2008- 给 christmas2008 发送悄悄话 (181 bytes) () 12/11/2008 postreply 13:17:15

You won't know that until you ask him to clarify and give him a -洁心- 给 洁心 发送悄悄话 洁心 的博客首页 (83 bytes) () 12/11/2008 postreply 13:41:56

读到这样的帖子是幸运~~ -tuzhirong- 给 tuzhirong 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2008 postreply 17:29:01

发个email给他说你当时有点shocked, 不应该这样走开,但让他具体解释哪里不appropriate -honghuahua- 给 honghuahua 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2008 postreply 13:53:28

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