同事们一起去吃午餐。 有必要同去吗？

他们都比我小致少五岁。情景是在一家大的会计师事务所。一些刚来得同事， 大概都和我同天开始工作。Some of them went out together for lunch. They didn't ask me since I have my own office but they are sharing the same office. But when I saw them go for lunch, I said I wanted to go together. 他们不是很欢迎我，because of ages and I am the only Chinese. Language is part of the reason also. Do I need to go with them in the future?

There are always a lot of small talks during the lunch time. That is why I think I should go. By the way, senior level personnels don't go with them.

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• 回复：同事们一起去吃午餐。 有必要同去吗？ -hurricean- ♀ (270 bytes) () 09/02/2005 postreply 19:07:19

• 回复：回复：同事们一起去吃午餐。 有必要同去吗？ -whynot.?- ♀ (215 bytes) () 09/02/2005 postreply 19:54:34

• 关键是你自己觉得是不是舒服,只是为了关系而关系,没意思. -colala- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/02/2005 postreply 21:39:27

• 回复：同事们一起去吃午餐。 有必要同去吗？ -notnecess- ♀ (78 bytes) () 09/03/2005 postreply 14:27:25

• 只有当别人先邀请你, 你才可以问这样的问题. 我还以为是老板 -邀请但你不愿意呢- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/03/2005 postreply 16:32:10

• 应该问:同事们一起去吃午餐,有必要非让她们请我去吗? -没必要- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/03/2005 postreply 16:58:44

• GOLF, AND LUNCH -moonriver2- ♀ (1348 bytes) () 09/04/2005 postreply 10:46:59

• Anyone work in big firms here? -moonriver2- ♀ (109 bytes) () 09/04/2005 postreply 10:51:29

• 我想我的情况可能更麻烦一些 -mememem- ♀ (639 bytes) () 09/04/2005 postreply 11:55:05

• Treat golf and lunch like work -EnjyPaychx- ♀ (455 bytes) () 09/04/2005 postreply 13:50:58

• why bother to build up -yihuozhong- ♂ (346 bytes) () 09/05/2005 postreply 07:06:07

• Thanks. You are right. -moonriver2- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/05/2005 postreply 15:43:38