You’re there to get paid,

the rest is needs you created for yourself. Whenever you have needs, you place yourself in a weakened position.

So, think of yourself as having no needs. That projects strength.

Your wishing them behave in certain ways is an expression of your needs, which exposes your vulnerability.

 

 

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• The problem is that I need to deliver good job to get paid. -springgarden- ♀ (60 bytes) () 07/26/2023 postreply 12:51:15

• “Good job” in your eyes is good, and -One1618- ♂ (724 bytes) () 07/26/2023 postreply 13:36:06

• 特别赞同你的这番话。其实好多问题归根到底是价值观不同造成的。 -springgarden- ♀ (142 bytes) () 07/26/2023 postreply 15:55:06

• Well said. -One1618- ♂ (394 bytes) () 07/26/2023 postreply 18:10:59