“Good job” in your eyes is good, and

good job in the eyes of A or B is better.

A and B have their own agendas. You should know what they are.

You follow a standard that is outside of you, like most decent people.  A and B follow a standard that is inside of themselves (most managers behave this way, in different degrees). You need to find a balance between the two (standards).

If they consider your "good job" as an affront to their leadership, you should know ahead of time.

Are the "barriers" there by design? Or, everyone has done his/her best?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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• 特别赞同你的这番话。其实好多问题归根到底是价值观不同造成的。 -springgarden- ♀ (142 bytes) () 07/26/2023 postreply 15:55:06

• Well said. -One1618- ♂ (394 bytes) () 07/26/2023 postreply 18:10:59