Workplace conflict, What should I do?

来源: vievie 于 2022-04-11 16:37:15 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (758 bytes)
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If someboday says that your 人品 in chinese is not good in the workplace, is that serious personal attack ?

It happened in the work. I needed to provide a supporting document for her work. I did my best and updated a few times after she had a few questions. But she thinks that I purposly didn't provide what she needed and delayed her work. Then on a phone conversition, she said that.

What do you think?  Purposely or not, it is really hard to argure with her if she already believes so.

But when it comes to 人品, I feel deeply insulted by her.  What should I deal with it? Please help!

Thank you!

 

 

 

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• report to HR. -巴山夜猫狸- ♂ 给 巴山夜猫狸 发送悄悄话 巴山夜猫狸 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/11/2022 postreply 18:56:43

• Thank you for your reply. -vievie- ♀ 给 vievie 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/11/2022 postreply 19:06:46

• or to be a little bit nicer. talk to her in person -巴山夜猫狸- ♂ 给 巴山夜猫狸 发送悄悄话 巴山夜猫狸 的博客首页 (81 bytes) () 04/11/2022 postreply 19:29:57

• I really can't do that. I'm afraid it will only get worse. -vievie- ♀ 给 vievie 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/11/2022 postreply 19:39:45

• 写个邮件问一下。写的时候从消除误会而不是解决矛盾的角度出发。就说 -废话多多- ♀ 给 废话多多 发送悄悄话 废话多多 的博客首页 (888 bytes) () 04/12/2022 postreply 02:56:43

• 不愧是版主。想的周全。留下文字依据，很重要。 -巴山夜猫狸- ♂ 给 巴山夜猫狸 发送悄悄话 巴山夜猫狸 的博客首页 (65 bytes) () 04/12/2022 postreply 04:54:47

• Thank you very much! -vievie- ♀ 给 vievie 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/12/2022 postreply 14:22:08

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