Let me tell you how to deal with such BS

回答: 原来这是职场语言霸凌furball2018-07-04 06:17:29

1. For the new guy, from now on, Don't teach him anything.  If he asks you something and if it is your job to tell him, try to do that in front of boss or CC boss in email.  Most importantly, you need to use a "mentoring" tone when you talk or write, to make people realize you are teaching this guy.

2. Don't discuss anything with him unless really necessary.  You need to understand, an evil mind person is always evil mind.  Don't expect him to change to be a nice guy.

3. For your boss.  Be professional, if you know he is that type mean, don't make extra request unless really necessary, and don't ask for favor unncessary you have no choice.  Meanwhile, don't be shy to say no to his unreseanale request.

Bottom line is , be yourself and if things really make you upset, get the hell out of that junk place and find a new job.

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什么情况下她这样说的呢? -秒秒- 给 秒秒 发送悄悄话 秒秒 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/05/2018 postreply 14:06:09

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