How should I deal with this issue

Sorry for not being able to type Chinese here.

My boss told me he has been asking more resources from his boss and the justification he provided to his boss is that I am not performing at the level and learning as fast as he has expected. There are only two people in our team currently. As a matter of fact, he has been conveying the same message every week when he is doing his weekly update with his boss.

The truth is that he leaves all the business projects and business meetings to me and is only involved in what he likes which is not much related to our business. As seen by everybody in the department, I have been working extremely hard and handling all the projects independantly on behalf of our team. Everyone questions that what he is busy with and where he has been. I guess that his boss is the only person who does not know what is going on because He pulls me into his office and let me update the status of each project every time before he goes to his status update meeting with his boss. He told me today that his boss asked why two of us are doing the same projects and he said that I am not capable enough so he has to put his hands in.

This is definitely a distortion of the ture picture. As a matter of fact, since the first day I joined this company, I have been told almost by everyone that he is a very tough person to work with and he does not have any people mangement skills and he should not have any direct reports.

What should I do in this case? Should I talk to his boss? I do not want to get the issue bigger. All his previous employees who have had issues with him and left the team never said anything to his boss. However, on the other hand, if I do not say anything, I may lose my job and I like my work and do not want to leave my work just because of him.

Any suggestions?

 

Thank you so much.

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找大领导谈。 -屋漏痕- 给 屋漏痕 发送悄悄话 屋漏痕 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 10:24:40

我给您抛个砖,您可以先琢磨一下,您自己能够得到的最好结局,然后 -为烈士注册- 给 为烈士注册 发送悄悄话 为烈士注册 的博客首页 (437 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 10:27:31

回复:我给您抛个砖,您可以先琢磨一下,您自己能够得到的最好结局,然后 -chinacanada- 给 chinacanada 发送悄悄话 chinacanada 的博客首页 (1577 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 11:05:06

新的问题 -为烈士注册- 给 为烈士注册 发送悄悄话 为烈士注册 的博客首页 (666 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 11:24:35

我给你设想一个结局 -为烈士注册- 给 为烈士注册 发送悄悄话 为烈士注册 的博客首页 (255 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 11:53:22

换个思路,其实你已经能够独当一面了,或许你可以请教大侠们,该如何谈判争取权益 -为烈士注册- 给 为烈士注册 发送悄悄话 为烈士注册 的博客首页 (285 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 22:33:27

my thoughts -clistoz01- 给 clistoz01 发送悄悄话 (920 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 11:02:02

有几个疑问:1。你是如何得知老板对你的那些负面评语的?2。作为老板的老板,跟他的直接属下 -臭臭妈妈- 给 臭臭妈妈 发送悄悄话 臭臭妈妈 的博客首页 (238 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 11:14:21

回复:有几个疑问:1。你是如何得知老板对你的那些负面评语的?2。作为老板的老板,跟他的直接属下 -chinacanada- 给 chinacanada 发送悄悄话 chinacanada 的博客首页 (705 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 11:25:47

If that's the case, you do need to schedule a 1-1 with your boss -臭臭妈妈- 给 臭臭妈妈 发送悄悄话 臭臭妈妈 的博客首页 (89 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 11:27:52

黑锅谁来背的问题 -大写2- 给 大写2 发送悄悄话 (797 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 12:07:32

回复:黑锅谁来背的问题 -chinacanada- 给 chinacanada 发送悄悄话 chinacanada 的博客首页 (825 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 12:35:11

回复:回复:黑锅谁来背的问题 -大写2- 给 大写2 发送悄悄话 (58 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 13:15:31

估计是早请示晚汇报不太够。 -眼冒金星- 给 眼冒金星 发送悄悄话 眼冒金星 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 13:13:25

她那个老板是一心闭关两耳不闻窗外事,想自练成仙型的。就是每天给他跪安都不见哈 -为烈士注册- 给 为烈士注册 发送悄悄话 为烈士注册 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 13:29:17

哥:拜年,红包拿来。恭喜发财,财源滚滚,永远年轻 -俗世痴- 给 俗世痴 发送悄悄话 俗世痴 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 15:24:48

your manager doesn't know what he is doing -usinca- 给 usinca 发送悄悄话 usinca 的博客首页 (246 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 12:24:36

建议你每天或每几天把你做的工作写一个总结发给你老板,这样你干了多少活就有迹可迅了。 -大小毛头妈- 给 大小毛头妈 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 14:10:40

Thanks for all your replies -chinacanada- 给 chinacanada 发送悄悄话 chinacanada 的博客首页 (1110 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 14:41:59

建议你Initiate a meeting. 指定boss和boss' boss as required attendee. -老九不能走- 给 老九不能走 发送悄悄话 老九不能走 的博客首页 (156 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 17:57:18

我会跟老板先谈开,并警告他: 若他不依,咱们 -美西游子- 给 美西游子 发送悄悄话 美西游子 的博客首页 (113 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 22:09:01

真的是那么烂的人做上级,就越级讨论好了。不然也就是早死晚死的问题。 -Kilimajaro- 给 Kilimajaro 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 19:44:30

工作就为心情愉快地挣钱 -龙少爷- 给 龙少爷 发送悄悄话 龙少爷 的博客首页 (154 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 20:05:14

站这里 -美西游子- 给 美西游子 发送悄悄话 美西游子 的博客首页 (445 bytes) () 02/06/2013 postreply 21:59:31

非常能够理解你的心情。 -一千零六夜- 给 一千零六夜 发送悄悄话 一千零六夜 的博客首页 (604 bytes) () 02/07/2013 postreply 02:14:47

再补充几句。 -一千零六夜- 给 一千零六夜 发送悄悄话 一千零六夜 的博客首页 (264 bytes) () 02/07/2013 postreply 03:18:38

回复:再补充几句。 -chinacanada- 给 chinacanada 发送悄悄话 chinacanada 的博客首页 (532 bytes) () 02/07/2013 postreply 08:40:39

回复:How should I deal with this issue -泽西明- 给 泽西明 发送悄悄话 泽西明 的博客首页 (2979 bytes) () 02/07/2013 postreply 21:52:31

回复:回复:How should I deal with this issue -chinacanada- 给 chinacanada 发送悄悄话 chinacanada 的博客首页 (754 bytes) () 02/08/2013 postreply 09:07:45

wait a minute. Did you see what you missed here? -下岗职工- 给 下岗职工 发送悄悄话 (1525 bytes) () 02/08/2013 postreply 21:04:46

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