被裁还被怀疑

一个多月前公司减员把我裁了，昨天接到原老板的email怀疑我在公司文件上动了手脚。首先地反映是气愤，而后想他们不会用我的东西部好好来问，给他推回去气死他们。

 

以下是邮件交换：

 

老板：

XX – I just wanted to touch base to see how you were doing.  

 

I did want to ask you about a concern that was raised to me about some of the XX files – there seems to have been some changes to a file back towards the end of July.  In particular, the pivot tables in the XX file (XXX.xls) were not working properly when the team needed to use the file.  Do you know why a change was made and why the pivot tables were not working correctly?

 

我：

XX, thank you for asking. I am doing well.

 

I am not sure what the issue with table in file is. The table worked fine when I was in office. I couldn't think of anything the table stopped working now. If for some reason XX and XX could not get it to work, they may want to consider using a different application/system tool they are familiar with since the data is there.  

 

In the future, XX and XX are welcome to contact me directly with specific questions, I will be glad to help.

 

体会：明明是不会用我的报表，虚心讨教就是了。这类事即使组里有人怀疑做老板也不应用这种口气来质问，这样一定得不到对方的积极配合。当事人要冷静，遇事不要情绪化不被别人抓辫子。 

所有跟帖： 

• 你是气自己的钱包 -胡说之- ♂ (413 bytes) () 09/08/2011 postreply 10:47:26

• 哈哈。。。。 -北京老乡- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/08/2011 postreply 10:59:21

• 说得好！！！ -多年以前- ♀ (72 bytes) () 09/10/2011 postreply 16:17:52

• 很多财务部的素质就是低.人走了还要被诬陷. -julie116- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/08/2011 postreply 11:01:57

• 倒不是诬陷。 裁员就是伤元气的行为，双输。 美国这么搞下去，非垮不可。 -lavendar99- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/08/2011 postreply 11:30:10

• 还真是。 裁员是双刃剑。 这个老板还很嫩，老练的都不能留下 paper trail。 因为你解答任何技术问题， -lavendar99- ♀ (27 bytes) () 09/08/2011 postreply 11:28:37

• 他怀疑你改file, 你应该明确讲"我没改". 他们不会用file, 可以帮忙,但收费(看你想不想拆桥了) -橄榄树1- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/08/2011 postreply 12:24:28

• If you don't want to go back, don't bother to answer -deep-sea- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/08/2011 postreply 12:28:22

• 为什么不直接回答why a change was made?的问题？ -toosad- ♀ (184 bytes) () 09/08/2011 postreply 13:49:13

• 真没想过，请教什么证据？如何应对？ -北京老乡- ♀ (45 bytes) () 09/08/2011 postreply 14:54:54

• 我不认为你前老板真想如何 -toosad- ♀ (770 bytes) () 09/08/2011 postreply 23:46:46

• 多谢指教。其实他们就是不会用，不是不work的问题 -北京老乡- ♀ (282 bytes) () 09/09/2011 postreply 01:53:33

• 回复：被裁还被怀疑 -HappyNow?!- ♂ (555 bytes) () 09/09/2011 postreply 16:59:45