my experience with team work

I am doing a team project in a program. I am not happy and sometimes think about drop out of this program. It really made my day gloomy.

I am wondering this is caused by me or not. Should I choose to ignore them and being like myself or try to change something about myself. Sometimes it really hurt my self-esteem.

There is this girl, controlling, put herself on the leader's position from day one. Rude, calling my work crap. Doesn't respect my opinion, saying "I spent several hours doing this, if anybody gonna say something, I will be cranky." Made decision without me. For example, when we decide on next meeting time, she denied my suggestion by saying"no, that day has football" She suggests a night before my 2 interviews. I don't agree, but she ignored and said to the team"ok, we are going to meet ...day."

There is this another guy, always stuck with this girl, support her whenever whatever........ Also I don't feel any respect from him...

The third person is OK though.

The guy I mentioned is strong in technical skills so he made the whole project very technical. I don't think anybody except him really understand what he has done, even the professor.

Like Drama said, I also have other priorities. The time they spent on the project, I don't feel I can afford. So I have to admit I spent less time than these two.

The worst thing is they are ruining my reputation. For our next project, the program director gave me a least attractive one, which is so obvious that everyone can see.

My situation now is pretty bad. Quite ugly actually. Should I quit or should I start a new page. Willing to listen everybody's opinion.

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• 这是一个非常糟糕的team,如果真如你所说，通常做法是你可以 -糊涂仙- ♂ (38 bytes) () 11/04/2004 postreply 18:29:21

• I am in an MBA program -fenger- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/04/2004 postreply 18:32:07

• your mistake was that you hid -iknowiknow- ♂ (410 bytes) () 11/04/2004 postreply 19:01:10

• My suggestions -Darma- ♀ (1390 bytes) () 11/04/2004 postreply 21:08:00

• 回复：My suggestions -fenger- ♀ (1033 bytes) () 11/04/2004 postreply 22:08:09

• Why don't you set an appointme -Darma- ♀ (357 bytes) () 11/04/2004 postreply 22:25:10

• 回复：my experience with team work -just_4_fun- ♀ (472 bytes) () 11/05/2004 postreply 00:37:53

• my 2 cents -oyaya- ♀ (296 bytes) () 11/05/2004 postreply 08:57:54