A friend's story

来源: Cathy_Bay 于 2010-06-03 07:00:10 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (1102 bytes)

my friend is a very talented person. He led one product into market and facilitated another one. They also have several early stage projects going on. His group used to be very big. At the point of getting into administrative track for his career developement, he received some comments "not good people management skills" from his boss. My friend kinda accepted the reality and just tried to achieve more as a scholar. Then his boss lost in a political power fight and left. My friend then was shuffled into another group which is headed by a much junior person and the next level boss is the one who won the power fight in the organization, i.e. an enemy. My friend then got worse reviews, many of his people were put into other groups and now he received an official performance improvement warning. He is actively seeking otehr jobs. But this is a tough environment. It takes more time to get one, especially a senior position. Is there anything he can do to make things better so that he can stick around until getting the next job? How can he deal with a hostile next-level manager (site head)?

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• Good morning! -veggiedoggie- ♀ 给 veggiedoggie 发送悄悄话 veggiedoggie 的博客首页 (389 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 07:23:37

• 诈姐,你应该祝贺她已经americanized了. -后进分子- ♂ 给 后进分子 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 08:38:26

• 人家想Improve英文,要多鼓励才对呀诈姐. -后进分子- ♂ 给 后进分子 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 09:10:12

• she might not have the proper software:) -灰衣人- ♂ 给 灰衣人 发送悄悄话 灰衣人 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 08:42:30

• no, no, i can not do it on my office computer, i tried it for -灰衣人- ♂ 给 灰衣人 发送悄悄话 灰衣人 的博客首页 (77 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 09:00:50

• 我教你，我教你：www.inputking.com，别说输中文，火星文都行！ -veggiedoggie- ♀ 给 veggiedoggie 发送悄悄话 veggiedoggie 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 09:04:17

• 这有火星来的人吗？赶紧地问候：吃了吗？饭否？ -眼冒金星- ♂ 给 眼冒金星 发送悄悄话 眼冒金星 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 09:07:39

• 不就是你吗？老金，你脑袋上的天线还没收好呢！ -veggiedoggie- ♀ 给 veggiedoggie 发送悄悄话 veggiedoggie 的博客首页 (89 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 09:11:34

• 我的天线不在上面，是在下面。你有事就联系吧。时不我待，就在当下。 -眼冒金星- ♂ 给 眼冒金星 发送悄悄话 眼冒金星 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 09:17:09

• 别学，搞不好金星上技术先进，如果是nokia类型的天线就麻烦了。 -吃糖？- ♂ 给 吃糖？ 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 09:45:23

• 撤！见色忘友。人心不古啊！ -眼冒金星- ♂ 给 眼冒金星 发送悄悄话 眼冒金星 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 12:07:37

• nnd,诈老和，我求你了，你还管我叫老菜吧。你那儿一菜菜，吓得我一哆嗦！ -veggiedoggie- ♀ 给 veggiedoggie 发送悄悄话 veggiedoggie 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 09:20:58

• 讲过不少这种事情，经济好的时候都没什么办法，不用说现在。 -lavendar99- ♀ 给 lavendar99 发送悄悄话 (85 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 08:37:01

• 对不起，是“见过”。。。阶级斗争真的很残酷。。关键是保存实力。 -lavendar99- ♀ 给 lavendar99 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 08:39:02

• 回复：A friend's story -灰衣人- ♂ 给 灰衣人 发送悄悄话 灰衣人 的博客首页 (405 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 08:40:50

• many of his people：））））））））） -眼冒金星- ♂ 给 眼冒金星 发送悄悄话 眼冒金星 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 08:48:21

• 通常说his people.都是指上帝和他的子民。看着就乐了。直接 -眼冒金星- ♂ 给 眼冒金星 发送悄悄话 眼冒金星 的博客首页 (33 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 09:10:19

• not very much can he do actually -clistoz01- ♂ 给 clistoz01 发送悄悄话 (89 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 09:12:46

• 建议有三 -难得小马甲- ♂ 给 难得小马甲 发送悄悄话 (319 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 09:15:17

• 人际关系和业务强是两个概念。他缺少前一个能力。 -眼冒金星- ♂ 给 眼冒金星 发送悄悄话 眼冒金星 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 09:19:18

• 没错。不过这个需要他自己体会，别人说多了也没用。 -难得小马甲- ♂ 给 难得小马甲 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 09:21:52

• I don't see any chance to improve the situation -julie116- ♀ 给 julie116 发送悄悄话 (824 bytes) () 06/03/2010 postreply 15:11:35

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