I mean it's not easy to be invulnerable. and you don't have

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回答: 就是太要强吧，我就有这个毛病 由 future2020 于 2010-03-28 16:02:39

to show your weakness to earn others trust or make other people feel safe.
I agree with your point about everybody is the same in a team. but from what I had observed from my old boss's management, it's like he was always right and always had the final call of certain issue. if someone proposed a different opinion, he would overpower them in a very inpatient tone. If someone proposed a new idea, he would just reject it with very short explanation. I felt really suppressed under his leadership, and I know others had same feeling.

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• maybe... -难得小马甲- ♂ 给 难得小马甲 发送悄悄话 (563 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 16:33:35

• yes, that's the way i deal with my boss now, it works~ -future2020- ♂ 给 future2020 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 16:36:00

• well, this is not my point, and it's not about a brilliant idea -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (87 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 16:37:52

• i didn't get your point either. -future2020- ♂ 给 future2020 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 16:49:13

• I was trying to discuss this topic at a team level not -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (104 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 16:58:42

• my boss behaves the same way -future2020- ♂ 给 future2020 发送悄悄话 (207 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 16:35:12

• I guess we are off the topic now. -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 16:40:37

• the team building excise descr. in thebook might not help, i agr -future2020- ♂ 给 future2020 发送悄悄话 (79 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 16:44:02

• I don't quite get your point. I have seen/participated other -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (451 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 16:54:05

• then, you are in a good team. like i said in my second post, -future2020- ♂ 给 future2020 发送悄悄话 (193 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 16:59:10

• haha, I would love to see that. are you saying they attack -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (54 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 17:02:33

• may not be that obvious, but i was attacked once face to face -future2020- ♂ 给 future2020 发送悄悄话 (42 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 17:06:33

• oh, horrable. hope you were not physically hurt. -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 17:07:59

• not really, i kind of liked it. it gets me to read all those boo -future2020- ♂ 给 future2020 发送悄悄话 (48 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 17:08:57

• but it is still a very interesting fight, i learned a lot from i -future2020- ♂ 给 future2020 发送悄悄话 (57 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 17:08:16

• by the team building excise, i mean that one meeting in the book -future2020- ♂ 给 future2020 发送悄悄话 (77 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 17:02:27

• I see. My old boss ever tried that tech. But he didn't do it -小谋- ♀ 给 小谋 发送悄悄话 小谋 的博客首页 (57 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 17:06:10

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