Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High

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• very good book summary. -小谋- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 09:32:40

• 但做起来不容易, 要随时随地地练习. 我已经在公司和我LG -小谋- ♀ (21 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 09:36:08

• 少读那些破书，多玩玩。 -吃糖？- ♂ (70 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 10:20:34

• 呵呵, 你也许没看过这本书, 交流中第一要做到的就是要诚恳. -小谋- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 10:37:46

• Jill08说的对，不过是common sense， -吃糖？- ♂ (46 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 10:41:43

• I agree those are common sense. but it takes a lot of -小谋- ♀ (219 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 10:50:55

• 有时是聪明反被聪明误。 -jill08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 10:54:23

• 看来你已经是大师了, PFPF. -小谋- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 10:55:44

• how to avoid that? -future2020- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 10:56:39

• you just kicked 吃糖？'s crucial point~ -future2020- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 10:54:49

• you just kicked 吃糖？'s crucial point~ -future2020- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 10:55:10

• Ha, I know. It's really bad. I still have long way to go. -小谋- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 11:07:18

• 人的性格是天生的，不可改变。 -吃糖？- ♂ (254 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 15:53:08

• 性格不容易变，但人的思维方式还是很容易变的。 -future2020- ♂ (84 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 16:39:54

• 这些也是只能知道，不能改，一遇压力全出来了。 -吃糖？- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 16:49:30

• 研究结果都说可以改。 所以才看书努力。试试呗， 改不了就算了 -future2020- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 16:53:38

• 你看小谋，就是一个最好的例子，改了多少啊 -future2020- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 16:55:24

• 你是吴用的马甲吗? -小谋- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 17:01:51

• 嗯：） -future2020- ♂ (36 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 17:08:44

• feel like being stalked. :S -小谋- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 17:15:06

• sorry, my bad. -future2020- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 17:25:06

• 交流中第一要做到的就是要让对方感到很诚恳. 象马英九计笔记那样. 人人都感到马英九很诚恳 -去美国- ♂ (42 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 20:46:28

• 交流中第一要做到的就是要让对方"感到"很诚恳. 内心真正诚恳是另一回事 -去美国- ♂ (199 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 20:55:38

• 这个是欺骗，也是本质区别 -future2020- ♂ (92 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 21:02:25

• 真心，人家"可能"会感觉到. Otherwise, 就不会有误解了. -去美国- ♂ (84 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 21:29:29

• 为啥一看到这类书，就自动以为是欺骗，还common sense啊。 -future2020- ♂ (261 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 21:45:01

• There is cultural issue. The book is for corporate america. -小谋- ♀ (155 bytes) () 03/28/2010 postreply 07:28:34

• 冲突的技巧：内行的看门道，外行的看热闹 -Easy.Spin- ♂ (378 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 12:34:51

• I've got this: appreciate, acknowledge, agree each has -HappyNow?!- ♂ (141 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 13:13:12

• this one also is good: Crucial Confrontations -HappyNow?!- ♂ (10301 bytes) () 03/27/2010 postreply 13:36:03