To needadvice7

I am sorry I wouldn't type Chinese here. When I saw your post, tears were full of my eyes. Your story is like one of my best friends. I understand what you suffer. My friend's hu*****and is the same as yours, who treated her like a dog, used to say bad words to abuse her. He laughed at her, said that she was a poor woman. Actually she supported the family, and he worked 3 years totally for a few companies in 10 years marriage, the longest 1 year, the short 3 months. When they tried to divorce, he also threaten to kill her. She left home which she bought without mortgage, that year her daughter was 7 years old. She moved to tight security apartment. She told me that I tried hard to keep a family for child until the child turned 18 years, however I wouldn't , I was dying, I decided to reborn for myself. She got divorced by giving him apartment,daughter, money. That is sad eh. Now my friend have a peaceful, normal and happy life with her daughter after 5 years separation.
I understand your situation. The people who have normal life wouldn't feel your pain, your struggle. Remember, you couldn't change him. Bless you!!!!!

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写得好,离得更好 -WOOgor- 给 WOOgor 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/15/2010 postreply 18:09:59

i suggest "needadvice" need to change her name to "needadivorce" -撅着挺好- 给 撅着挺好 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/15/2010 postreply 18:23:45

看她的语气有几丝不舍。 -冬眠的蛇- 给 冬眠的蛇 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/15/2010 postreply 19:09:13

agreed, there r must untold stories. -撅着挺好- 给 撅着挺好 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/15/2010 postreply 19:12:40

也许是女强人/JD恋吧。 -冬眠的蛇- 给 冬眠的蛇 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/15/2010 postreply 19:32:15

都是原来惯的,现在再去纠正,晚了. -撅着挺好- 给 撅着挺好 发送悄悄话 (341 bytes) () 03/15/2010 postreply 20:11:57

well, nobody could help her except herself -longnv- 给 longnv 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/15/2010 postreply 19:57:42

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