how to deal with this Chinese coworker?

My group have two Chinese people, this Chinese coworker is very nice to everyone except me, which makes me feel really bad. I tried really hard to make friends with her now I have to give up. She is happy if someone doesn't like me, she is mad if someone likes me. She is OK with anyone else get promoted but not me,I just don't understand. Do you have any suggestions how to deal with this situation?

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搞好你自己的业务,跟你自己的老板搞好关系. 就是治她的最好办法. -ExpectingMM- 给 ExpectingMM 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/07/2009 postreply 19:29:00

回复:搞好你自己的业务,跟你自己的老板搞好关系. 就是治她的最好办法. -天真真- 给 天真真 发送悄悄话 天真真 的博客首页 (376 bytes) () 10/07/2009 postreply 19:36:59

她的英语比你好? 要不怎么能isolate 你? -ExpectingMM- 给 ExpectingMM 发送悄悄话 (94 bytes) () 10/08/2009 postreply 06:07:16

deal or no deal? -龙少爷- 给 龙少爷 发送悄悄话 龙少爷 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/07/2009 postreply 19:55:05

最简单的办法,对她视而不见。不让她的态度影响你的心情。 -闹闹猫- 给 闹闹猫 发送悄悄话 闹闹猫 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/07/2009 postreply 19:59:07

果然被验证! -静听海- 给 静听海 发送悄悄话 (66 bytes) () 10/07/2009 postreply 22:29:56

感觉你的中国老板也并不想让你上去. -问问玩- 给 问问玩 发送悄悄话 (53 bytes) () 10/08/2009 postreply 06:37:30

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