Unfair Treatment at Job. What to do? Please help.

Sorry I type Chinese very slowly, English is not all that good neither. Please bear with me.

The story is about my hu*****and's job. He works for a startup company that's doing quite well in Northern California. He has good relationship with his immediate manager, but bad relationship with his director, an old, mean spirited lady according to him. This lady does not respect any employees, she always make comments such as "if you make a mistake again, I will fire you!" "Is this a personal phone call you are taking? You are not suppose to take personal phone call, I will fire you!" "Go open your own company if you lose your job!" She's in total disregard to other people's feelings. Pretty much all the employees are disgusted with her except her own people that she brought in. But no one wants to offend her because of fear of losing job. My hu*****and is a a very straight forward person, and does not know how to pretend well when he's upset, I guess that's how he offended her when she made some nesty comments. This old lady also hates my hu*****and's immediate manager as well since he is not one of her own people. my hu*****and takes care many things for his manager, and since he does more than other people, he tends to make more mistakes too (做多错多), but nothing major, or unfixable. So the director uses that as an excuse to request the manager to write him up. But the manager did not, and he also kind of got in trouble because of that. Now it's at year end review, my hu*****and got the least shares of stock among all his team members because the old lady got involved with the stock option granting. His manager feels very sorry since my hu*****and does much more work than other team member, and although he's favored by his manager, but the manager has no power to help.

Sorry about the long story, but just seeking some suggestions as what to do in this case. 天天咒那个老女人死也不是回事儿。另外我们也没这么毒。 只好请大家帮忙想办法。先谢谢。

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• 工作能力有两方面：一个是完成本职技术工作的能力（你的 -眼冒金星- ♂ (445 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:03:58

• 回复：工作能力有两方面：一个是完成本职技术工作的能力（你的 -逗- ♀ (215 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:27:32

• 没事，慢慢train他，五年，十年就出手了。顺毛驴，多抹什就顺了。 -眼冒金星- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:36:46

• 公司里kiss惯了, 回到家里就给你ass了, 人总是要平衡的 : ) -问问玩- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 13:50:47

• 回复：公司里kiss惯了, 回到家里就给你ass了, 人总是要平衡的 : ) -逗- ♀ (146 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:26:47

• 毛驴的性格是什么，多顺顺他的毛，就容易安静听话很多，如果 -眼冒金星- ♂ (401 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 15:32:34

• 回复：毛驴的性格是什么，多顺顺他的毛，就容易安静听话很多，如果 -逗- ♀ (164 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 16:10:11

• 回复：回复：毛驴的性格是什么，多顺顺他的毛，就容易安静听话很多，如果 -眼冒金星- ♂ (532 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 16:23:36

• “老公最听话就是做爱后要啥给啥”---"后"改成"前"make more sense -撅着挺好- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 02:24:53

• 哈哈哈哈哈 -小谋- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 18:16:14

• 男人要有男人的样, 说那种话的人我决不会去讨好 -waitGC- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:24:21

• 回复：男人要有男人的样, 说那种话的人我决不会去讨好 -逗- ♀ (94 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:34:47

• 还有 -眼冒金星- ♂ (278 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:17:07

• 回复：还有 -逗- ♀ (106 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:36:32

• 国内念过重点的，学习厉害的人都这脾气。没办法教育如此。只 -眼冒金星- ♂ (25 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:39:25

• 回复：国内念过重点的，学习厉害的人都这脾气。没办法教育如此。只 -逗- ♀ (209 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:52:03

• ：）过日子本来就是如此。诚实是第一课，剩下的就靠你自己了。 -眼冒金星- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:55:26

• 既然没身份问题, 有本事就走人, 没本事就夹起尾巴做人 -waitGC- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:27:07

• 回复：既然没身份问题, 有本事就走人, 没本事就夹起尾巴做人 -逗- ♀ (76 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:52:42

• 非常费解！ -静听海- ♀ (132 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:31:04

• 回复：非常费解！ -逗- ♀ (65 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 12:58:23

• 你真逗！ -静听海- ♀ (388 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 17:18:23

• 看问题看本质，比我英文好多了。社会就是有不同声音，都心大些。 -眼冒金星- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 13:19:34

• One thing I gave to tell you is that no matter what had happened -HenryLi- ♂ (566 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 13:51:29

• I have to tell you -HenryLi- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 13:52:11

• 回复：One thing I gave to tell you is that no matter what had happe -逗- ♀ (727 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:11:43

• 谁没个情绪上的发表看法，没必要道歉，这就是你的看法，做 -眼冒金星- ♂ (60 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:17:11

• I think it's ok even though I will become a 老女人 one day. -小谋- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:24:36

• 今天看你的眼光大不同，亲一个。 -眼冒金星- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:26:16

• 那我今晚泡泡澡时就想着你吧. -小谋- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 17:51:37

• 哥就是那传说。 -眼冒金星- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 19:49:25

• 回复：I think it's ok even though I will become a 老女人 one day. -逗- ♀ (71 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:29:50

• 打得一拳开,免得百拳来。知道自己做什么，要什么，就行了。否则 -眼冒金星- ♂ (24 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:25:04

• 回复：打得一拳开,免得百拳来。知道自己做什么，要什么，就行了。否则 -逗- ♀ (28 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:40:20

• 回复：回复：打得一拳开,免得百拳来。知道自己做什么，要什么，就行了。否则 -眼冒金星- ♂ (218 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:50:55

• 回复：回复：回复：打得一拳开,免得百拳来。知道自己做什么，要什么，就行了。否则 -逗- ♀ (130 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 15:05:27

• MD,人家一洗澡你就觉得人家可爱是不是？ -撅着挺好- ♂ (34 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 02:31:21

• 我只能建议走人 -waitGC- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:23:11

• 添乱。姐姐慢走。 -眼冒金星- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 14:35:01

• 走人也未必是个解决方案，你和你哈斯本得的EQ都不够高， 到哪里 -幸福2006- ♀ (231 bytes) () 08/14/2009 postreply 23:25:12

• Not a big deal -Kaolin007- ♂ (638 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 12:37:37