回复：呵呵，若你已强过他，所争为何？right. 若你不如他，争之何用？here is why

来源: Cathy_Bay 于 2009-02-25 12:02:32 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (592 bytes)
回答: 提上来说处理争论 由 看那月光 于 2009-02-24 22:30:58

If you are at a lower position, you need to make argument, not to win what you are arguing about, but to show this high position person that you have your own point, you have a different strategy, big picture view, or whatever that needs to move you up, and you can be positioned at a higher level. Without argument, they can't know anything about you.

Of cause, argument is not the only way. Saying sth in agreement is also useful. Teh effect however, is not as good as argument. When people agree with each other, the attention level is low. In argument however, everyone is hyped.

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• yes, but argue in an unemotional way. being able to -pega- ♀ 给 pega 发送悄悄话 pega 的博客首页 (73 bytes) () 02/25/2009 postreply 13:06:00

• "argue" deos not mean "yell". -Cathy_Bay- ♀ 给 Cathy_Bay 发送悄悄话 (114 bytes) () 02/25/2009 postreply 14:56:13

• And that's american way. If you don't like it -百万富翁- ♂ 给 百万富翁 发送悄悄话 百万富翁 的博客首页 (47 bytes) () 02/25/2009 postreply 16:54:22

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