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来源: vanchael 于 2007-03-12 10:40:07 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (755 bytes)
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回答: 1. Love 2. Confidence 由 vanchael 于 2007-03-12 09:24:41

Understand. My wife has some depression as well and we have kids too...
What I notice is: blame never helps (it may help naturally confident people, because it forces them to slow down and rethink). Also, for a man who is supposed to be the head of family, losing a job is more than "losing a job", it also means "losing face" and even "self-esteem". Even for a naturally confident and optimistic man, it will be difficult for a while.

Let him know how much you love and how you will support him unconditionally (Even in real life, nothing is really unconditional, but encouraging words should not be mixed with "lie").

One day he will stand up again. When you guys look back at that time, you will smile and say:"this is life".

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