回复：my son keeps hitting other kids in daycare. need suggestion.

I talked with him every day about it. And gave him time out when he scratched me. But useless. He is not afraid at all. He has a very strong nerve, much more than I. I don't want him to be bully. Now we kind of fight everyday. I am afraid this will make things worse. But if I don't punish him, I am sure it will be worse.

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• 你儿子多大啊？我觉得这年纪的孩子，多给点爱吧，而不是天天骂他，罚他， -知福惜福- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/19/2010 postreply 12:22:44

• scratch爸爸妈妈还是坚决不能接受的.给TIME OUT应该的.我家孩子也给过 -MMXIAO- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/19/2010 postreply 12:24:56

• 我觉得首先要了解他scratch爸爸妈妈的原因啊，什么情况下干的，是故意要“伤害”那种，还是觉得好玩，无意识的行为。 -知福惜福- ♀ (34 bytes) () 11/19/2010 postreply 12:32:59

• He did it in purpose. -4657238- ♀ (122 bytes) () 11/19/2010 postreply 12:39:08

• 那你为啥非要他脱衣服呢？这个很重要吗？我觉得对管教小孩子上，大的原则性的东西你才去fight。 -知福惜福- ♀ (143 bytes) () 11/19/2010 postreply 12:42:28

• TIMEOUT不等于就不区别对待啊.觉得好玩不是挠人的借口.这点孩子一定要学明白 -MMXIAO- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/19/2010 postreply 12:40:33

• 我是.觉得如果他只是好玩的话，我就告诉他这样不好玩，帮他理解为什么他这样做是不好的，而重点不是在惩罚他。 -知福惜福- ♀ (84 bytes) () 11/19/2010 postreply 12:44:15

• 其实time out的真正意义不在惩罚,but to give him a chance to calm down -MMXIAO- ♀ (637 bytes) () 11/19/2010 postreply 12:59:45

• 你给他TIME OUT后问他为什么得TIMEOUT没?教他应该如何表达自己没?告诉他你爱他没? -MMXIAO- ♀ (302 bytes) () 11/19/2010 postreply 12:35:44

• I talked with him each time. -4657238- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/19/2010 postreply 12:42:23

• 回复：回复：my son keeps hitting other kids in daycare. need suggestio -张小胖- ♀ (507 bytes) () 11/19/2010 postreply 12:44:48

• 问题是她儿子不会说英文啊，这才是麻烦的。 -知福惜福- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/19/2010 postreply 12:45:59