回复：老公给我压力的时候我就会觉得很压抑

I think you may need to communicate with your 老公 and let him adjust his expectation.

If your 老公 is too pushy or competitive, you may still feel 压抑 even after you find a job.

Now that you are looking for a job, he is giving you pressure for not having one. Once you have a job, he might keep giving your pressure for not having a GOOD job. And that would be a vicious circle.

Don't give yourself too much presure!

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• 改变别人很难，那就改变自己的心态好了。 -yellowlemon- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/06/2008 postreply 11:16:21

• 从我们拿到绿卡之后他的态度来看,我觉得之前他生活的太压抑了. -梅影- ♀ (470 bytes) () 03/06/2008 postreply 11:24:34

• 回复：从我们拿到绿卡之后他的态度来看,我觉得之前他生活的太压抑了. -Ycart- ♀ (495 bytes) () 03/06/2008 postreply 11:40:41