回复：老公给我压力的时候我就会觉得很压抑

I think you may need to communicate with your 老公 and let him adjust his expectation.

If your 老公 is too pushy or competitive, you may still feel 压抑 even after you find a job.

Now that you are looking for a job, he is giving you pressure for not having one. Once you have a job, he might keep giving your pressure for not having a GOOD job. And that would be a vicious circle.

Don't give yourself too much presure!