I might be wrong, but

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回答: You are the few parents here 由 NoWorry 于 2004-12-15 09:40:53
my observation is that those, Chinese or Americans who are more successful and have a decent life after college are those who are very sociable. I am not trying to say that academic is not important, but to say sociability is more important in one’s life. It really does not matter too much which university kids are graduated from. The good universities may be helpful for one for the first few years after school. After that period of time, it is totally up to his/her skills, capability and sociability unless he/she is doing research and study. Second, we Chinese American parents pay too much attention to academic, which is true. Third, the Chinese American parents ourselves are not active in the social activities like those in community, company, homeowner association and volunteer so that our kids are not active, either. I guess we just need to pay more attention to the sociability education. It is not easy for any parent, not just for Chinese American parents to train kids with great sociability. It requires money, time, energy and smart decision when you have different options, which is very true in America. Of course, we can not pay enough attention to kids’ sociability training if we pay too much attention to their academic because our and our kids’ money, time and energy is limited. We can only make one choice or do one thing with same resource.

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• 回复：I might be wrong, but -你错了- ♀ 给 你错了 发送悄悄话 (327 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 14:12:59

• I agree with what you say, yes -noworry- ♂ 给 noworry 发送悄悄话 (533 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 15:08:56

• Oh, by the way, I am for going -NoWorry- ♂ 给 NoWorry 发送悄悄话 (534 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 15:29:14

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• Yes, but ... -annoy123- ♀ 给 annoy123 发送悄悄话 (767 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 14:21:53

• 你跟错了。 我的意思是说， -你错了- ♀ 给 你错了 发送悄悄话 (146 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 14:48:10

• I guess what I said of -NoWorry- ♂ 给 NoWorry 发送悄悄话 (80 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 14:59:41

• You've got a very good point. -NoWorry- ♂ 给 NoWorry 发送悄悄话 (472 bytes) () 12/16/2004 postreply 05:35:56

• Mr. Liao?? -curious- ♀ 给 curious 发送悄悄话 (117 bytes) () 12/16/2004 postreply 11:08:05

• 回复：You've got a very good point. -annoy123- ♀ 给 annoy123 发送悄悄话 (106 bytes) () 12/16/2004 postreply 11:37:56

• I agree with you on this. -noworry- ♂ 给 noworry 发送悄悄话 (169 bytes) () 12/16/2004 postreply 12:04:38

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