I agree with what you say, yes

it would be wonderful if kids can be good at academic as well as at social activites. I guess the later that most of us don't realize how important is, even for applying for college school. One thing I don't quite agree with you is that evey and each of the students go to top universities is very good at both of academic and sociability. Most of them are not good at all later once they are in the top schools, esepcially after school. They might be good at both when they are applying for college schools with parents' help.