真是难题啊3 -- mother is the key!

I think the key is, the cousin should take care of her mother first. (From the original article, it seems the parents were happy together until the father got some money.) To be dumped, without major faults, at 50s, this kind of betrayal must be very painful. Maybe the father fell in love. However, it is the mother who got hurt badly. The father has his new family (wife and kid); the mother has nobody but her own children. If the daught give the father moeny without the consent from the mother, it sounds to me like stabbing the mother on the back again. To let an old lady suffer another betrayal from her own kids is uncomprehensible.

This is not about money; this is about the life (spiritual) support of the mother.

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• 对妈妈好不等于对爸爸不好；对爸爸好不等于对妈妈不好：〕 -不问有言- ♂ (0 bytes) () 05/28/2005 postreply 03:36:56

• 强词夺理,毫无是非观念. -sigh- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/28/2005 postreply 18:30:18

• NO. It is to protect victim. -N.- ♀ (228 bytes) () 05/28/2005 postreply 21:38:06

• 回复：真是难题啊3 -- mother is the key! -打法及- ♀ (1733 bytes) () 05/28/2005 postreply 08:36:22

• 说的好,不问有言有些不懂是非和爱憎 -尽管他比较和气- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/28/2005 postreply 09:58:09

• 社会经验多：〕 -不问有言- ♂ (176 bytes) () 05/28/2005 postreply 20:51:20