Help - 14 years old daughter wants to be a vionlinist

来源: fupin 于 2007-04-03 07:44:01 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (618 bytes)

I have a 14 years old daughter who wants be a vionlinist. Here is her background: she has been played on piano for 7 years and won a national award on piano compition. She has been a recipient of numerous national awards on music composition. She has been played on vionlin for 5 years. Among piano, composition, and vionlin, the vionlin is her weakness one. However, she likes vionlin very much and she wants be a professional musician in the future.
However, people told me that you cannot survive with a music. As a parent, I don't what should I do? Encourage or discourage?

Any help will be appreciate.

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• Encourage, definitely. -偶尔到此一游- ♀ 给 偶尔到此一游 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 07:42:12

• 回复：Encourage, definitely. -fupin- ♀ 给 fupin 发送悄悄话 (250 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 07:49:38

• It is very compititive. But it looks like your D -baydad- ♂ 给 baydad 发送悄悄话 (41 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 07:55:03

• 修士吨交响乐团里有5，6个东方人面孔，大多数是提琴 -偶尔到此一游- ♀ 给 偶尔到此一游 发送悄悄话 (316 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 07:57:42

• 我们的祖先里面，宁可喝风也要追求自己喜欢的东西的人倒不少 -云槎- ♀ 给 云槎 发送悄悄话 云槎 的博客首页 (180 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:01:50

• 专业乐团的话，绝对可以保持一定生活了。 -偶尔到此一游- ♀ 给 偶尔到此一游 发送悄悄话 (57 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:04:44

• 古典音乐的饭碗不好端啊. -20146- ♀ 给 20146 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:08:45

• 但也不会流落街头不是？豪宅靓车的可能性很少而已。 -偶尔到此一游- ♀ 给 偶尔到此一游 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:11:00

• 守得住清贫耐得住寂寞，就行 -云槎- ♀ 给 云槎 发送悄悄话 云槎 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:13:06

• 回复：我们的祖先里面，宁可喝风也要追求自己喜欢的东西的人倒不少 -fupin- ♀ 给 fupin 发送悄悄话 (113 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:14:04

• 那你就多虑了，当不了音乐家，女孩当个音乐老师也不错吗。 -坐家妈妈- ♀ 给 坐家妈妈 发送悄悄话 坐家妈妈 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:35:39

• 一定要让孩子干她喜欢的事,大学时,可以DOUBLE MAJOR -honeydue- ♀ 给 honeydue 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 07:54:52

• Have an assessment from a pro -borisg- ♀ 给 borisg 发送悄悄话 (343 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 07:55:17

• Her D must have a very good music teacher already. -baydad- ♂ 给 baydad 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 07:56:43

• 回复：Have an assessment from a pro -fupin- ♀ 给 fupin 发送悄悄话 (466 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:05:55

• In that case you shouldn't worry too much. -borisg- ♀ 给 borisg 发送悄悄话 (191 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:47:16

• a national award on piano compition <-- what compitition -baydad- ♂ 给 baydad 发送悄悄话 (14 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 07:59:04

• Kawai Piano’s North American “Searching for a Star” -fupin- ♀ 给 fupin 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:40:31

• 推荐一本书. 也让你女儿看看,最起码可以借鉴一点人家走过的路 -20146- ♀ 给 20146 发送悄悄话 (249 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:04:42

• 图在这里 -20146- ♀ 给 20146 发送悄悄话 (161 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:06:10

• 谢谢 -fupin- ♀ 给 fupin 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:16:36

• 随她，大学修双科，到时侯没准她就换主意了。 -soccermom- ♀ 给 soccermom 发送悄悄话 soccermom 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:18:00

• 她如果真的是选择了音乐之路，小提琴比刚琴机会还是多多了 -坐家妈妈- ♀ 给 坐家妈妈 发送悄悄话 坐家妈妈 的博客首页 (50 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:32:36

• 老中教育孩子的心理缺陷,逼的孩子学乐器,孩子喜欢了,又不让了 -whiteoak1234- ♀ 给 whiteoak1234 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:39:47

• 冤枉了. I never 逼 her. I just worry her future. -fupin- ♀ 给 fupin 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:42:57

• 别着急，她那么小，前途广阔着呢。 -坐家妈妈- ♀ 给 坐家妈妈 发送悄悄话 坐家妈妈 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:44:59

• 我也替你冤枉:) 怎么就不许人家真喜欢呢? 俺也喜欢,就是没有什么天份 -20146- ♀ 给 20146 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 08:46:35

• 女儿可以。 完全不用着急~ 当医生的不一定就比音乐得过得好 -蓬莱~- ♀ 给 蓬莱~ 发送悄悄话 蓬莱~ 的博客首页 (79 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 09:04:17

• 儿子就不行? -baydad- ♂ 给 baydad 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/03/2007 postreply 11:31:24

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