这篇文章讲的有道理,但孩子的“自信”应该受到成年人的指导,有时候有人给泼点冷水有好处。过分自信对将来的发展不一定有好处。 请大家读读“The curse of the 'cool kids': Children who are popular at school become losers later in life, claims study” (链接:http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-3181611/The-curse-cool-Kids-popular-school-losers-adults-claims-study.html),“Researchers Figured Out What Really Happens To Cool Kids When They Grow Up”(链接:http://www.businessinsider.com/being-popular-in-high-school-leads-to-problems-in-adulthood-2014-6)。