behavior problem. Please help me!!!

来源: desteratemom 于 2006-12-26 10:31:41 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (749 bytes)

I have two boys. My oldest 8 years old boy had several behavior problems at a public school. He pushed, threw sand to other kids, said "You are not my friend. I will kill you", "I will dig a hole and bury you in the sand, and then you can’t go anywhere.” The teachers really concerned and want us to take him to see social worker/psychologist. He is a good kid and always gets A in class. Both of his piano teacher and Chinese school teacher said he is a sweet and polite boy. I feel he is not mature comparing to his age kid. He thinks everything is funny and hardly gets serious of something. We spanked him sometimes. I don’t know how the system in US works and I don’t want to ruin his future. Please help me and give me some suggestions.

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• 如果他是个好孩子的话你知道为什么他会说这种话呢 -gqc- ♀ 给 gqc 发送悄悄话 (72 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 10:39:01

• 回复：如果他是个好孩子的话你知道为什么他会说这种话呢 -desteratemom- ♀ 给 desteratemom 发送悄悄话 (216 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 11:07:12

• I think if you don't know how to help then see a -gqc- ♀ 给 gqc 发送悄悄话 (177 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 11:23:48

• 回复：behavior problem. Please help me!!! -2kids- ♀ 给 2kids 发送悄悄话 (125 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 10:54:08

• 回复：回复：behavior problem. Please help me!!! -desteratemom- ♀ 给 desteratemom 发送悄悄话 (357 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 11:04:21

• 俺四岁的儿子也这样说过,好象是生气了发泄,也不一定就是这个 -阿佳- ♀ 给 阿佳 发送悄悄话 (46 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 10:57:23

• 回复：俺四岁的儿子也这样说过,好象是生气了发泄,也不一定就是这个 -desteratemom- ♀ 给 desteratemom 发送悄悄话 (188 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 11:10:32

• My six year old boy has the same problem -超级连接- ♂ 给 超级连接 发送悄悄话 (504 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 11:42:45

• 回复：behavior problem. Please help me!!! -超级连接- ♂ 给 超级连接 发送悄悄话 (425 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 12:11:04

• Thank you for your kind advice! -desteratemom- ♀ 给 desteratemom 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/28/2006 postreply 07:48:21

• 应该是跟电视或游戏上学的吧 -黑黑黑黑- ♀ 给 黑黑黑黑 发送悄悄话 (50 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 12:56:38

• 回复：behavior problem. Please help me!!! -jcp2000- ♀ 给 jcp2000 发送悄悄话 (453 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 13:48:15

• totally agreed with you -raining2006- ♀ 给 raining2006 发送悄悄话 (419 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 14:53:29

• 非常同意，这就是所谓的“护短”尤其当着孩子的面说这样 -adada- ♀ 给 adada 发送悄悄话 adada 的博客首页 (114 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 16:16:42

• Thank you for your suggestion. -desteratemom- ♀ 给 desteratemom 发送悄悄话 (126 bytes) () 12/28/2006 postreply 07:52:43

• 回复：behavior problem. Please help me!!! -Theta- ♀ 给 Theta 发送悄悄话 (497 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 15:22:09

• Thank you! -desteratemom- ♀ 给 desteratemom 发送悄悄话 (64 bytes) () 12/28/2006 postreply 07:56:10

• I don't know why so many parents are against -坚果- ♀ 给 坚果 发送悄悄话 坚果 的博客首页 (1071 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 20:22:16

• 回复：I don't know why so many parents are against -jcp2000- ♀ 给 jcp2000 发送悄悄话 (163 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 22:00:27

• 建议报名参加这儿的＂童子军＂活动．培养公义心和同情心． -老牛仔- ♂ 给 老牛仔 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/26/2006 postreply 21:36:34

• 找学校的consulor比较好。 -听听意见- ♀ 给 听听意见 发送悄悄话 听听意见 的博客首页 (297 bytes) () 12/27/2006 postreply 07:07:02

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