楼主没有在对立矛盾中去找到统一。或者你的nature让你拒绝放下黑暗。

送你一段我抄送给我女儿的一段话

Give but never allow yourself to be used.

Love but never allow your heart to be abused.

Trust but never to be naive.

Listen to others but never lose your own voice.

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