自我总结一下

看了大家的评论，还是很有启发。我想自己还是有一点一代移民victim的思维，当妈的弦绷得太紧,反应过激。重新来过，我会鼓励她tell her friend that," it made me feel really sad because you did not believe me and care about what I said." and see "if you can change your mind and give it back to me." 如果她不ready to confront the girl,也没关系，就take her back home.

从中学到了一个重要的lesson就是parent should not step in. Let them resolve the conflict between themselves and resolve it positively.　

另外就是要教育孩子万事要豁达，乐观，积极。告诉她，这个破手链拿了就拿了，不用去计较。

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• 我觉得你不该替小孩子去要，但你对她说的话很在理，it made me feel really sad because you d -陌香- ♀ (567 bytes) () 04/21/2015 postreply 08:50:08

• agree. -ravic- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/21/2015 postreply 09:00:59