我一度认为这是父母教育不当,加上孩子性格导致。我们经常在家里教育他,也不停地反思自己。
原以为孩子大了,会慢慢懂事好起来的,但事实并非如此。老师对他“disrupt" 课堂纪律很有意见。他老说所有的老师都“hate"他,性格也变得内向,负面不自信。我心里真是着急担心。
他有别的siblings, 都没这个问题。他学习也没问题。
我查了ADD/ADHD symptoms, 觉得儿子符合大部分symptoms of impulsivity in ADD/ADHD.
我想找学校phycologist 谈谈,然后再做个 evaluation。 如果真是 ADD/ADHD, 我们可以跟老师谈谈,这样他在学校的日子会好过些,我们也可以配合老师帮帮他。 只是不知道这会不会记录在案,影响到他的未来。
请懂行的朋友一定帮帮我,非常感谢!
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Symptoms of impulsivity in children:
- Acts without thinking
- Blurts out answers in class without waiting to be called on or hear the whole question
- Can’t wait for his or her turn in line or in games
- Says the wrong thing at the wrong time
- Often interrupts others
- Intrudes on other people’s conversations or games
- Inability to keep powerful emotions in check, resulting in angry outbursts or temper tantrums
- Guesses, rather than taking time to solve a problem